"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hey DJ's be NICE!

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I think its funny..how all these girls that want my nuts..have one thing in commen....they all say in So NICE..or sweet...even tho..im really not...but when your ****y and funny, or sarcastic, or confidence, arrogent, smooth..u know what im talking about!..then u say something incredibly sweet to them or do something nice...or just anything any man should do..they think the world of you.

how interesting? am I making since here
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kind of...

people say girls dont like a nice guy...

i think alot of people here dont understand the whole, not being a "nice" guy thing...

people often mistake this and inturn decide to be arrogant, mean, and tease people in a deliberate effort NOT to be nice...

this isnt how it works, people like nice friendly people that they feel comfortable around... ive been there... i made this mistake and ive seen others make it...

be nice, just like frivolous is saying, be nice but with a backbone who can upset someone when he needs to...

its nice to be nice, girls dont like a nasty man...
 
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Be nice by nature not by strategy.

Nice can be a manipulation strategy just like anything else, and is pretty much always adopted by Chumps.

Nice, is used so much that girls associate 'nice' with needy, that's the problem.

The trick is to be nice as you would with anybody, the subtlety is communicating why you are nice. If that makes sense:confused:
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I think its funny..how all these girls that want my nuts..have one thing in commen....they all say in So NICE..or sweet...even tho..im really not
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well a girl i know dumped her ex for not respecting her, even thou he was nice to her and never upset her or anything. I on the otherhand neg hit her, say stuff that she "cant belive i said" many times she would even say you have no respect for girls.

well i say to her, if you think he had no respect for you and thats why you do not like him, then you must hate me.

even thou she kept getting upset with me often and saying i have no respect.

when i said this she says "youll be suprised actuly, you have more respect for me then most guys do"

i ask how do you figure this and she says

"well you listen to me and ask me stuff"
 
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