"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey all, i need some advice on hitting on this 8.5.

cjyogz

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Well you's don't know me yet. i'm a newbie, come from australia i'm 19 and yeah, really need to get my life into this serious ****, where all the action happens, so here i am, i'm glad i stumbled along this site cause theres not only stuff that answers all my questions, but it all comes from personal experiences.

I love u guys (and girls) already. :cheer:

So anyway, i've got a bit of a back problems, and i've been recommended to have a deep muscle body massage, so i've got one at this new body place, where this hot chick, about 8.5 works.

I know her because when they opened the store, i sold her all the paint and accessories she needed to do the shop up with. Damn, i wish i knew more of this stuff back then, maybe things could of kicked off better.

But neway, i've been to the hair dressers a couple of times and i just sit there and go, well what the hell can i say to spark some interesting, ****y/funny conversation with this girl (different girl to the one i want).

And i know that this will happen with this 8.5.

So to all you Dj's out there, i'd appreciate some tips, examples nething you go that can help me out, i'll try nething.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cjyogz

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come on guys, 33 views and no little advice. Even a recommendation of a topic i should read that perhaps i havn't found yet.
 

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Take a class on improv and acting. Check with your local community college and local comedy clubs.
Other then that, it's ok not to know what to say. Amuse yourself with the fact that you don't know what to say.
 

cjyogz

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haha well i could do the schmuck, bit live in australia, in a country town, the city closest to me is about 30 mins away, and trust me, it ain't big enough to attract a comedy clubs.

But i'll try the amusement bit, not sure how i'll use it, but i guess i can only try.
 
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