"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hes trying to steal her!

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Ok, so ive been working on this one girl for a little bit now, and were getting closer, Im pulling her in. Then, this kid who I already hate asks her to prom, and she says yes (Were both sophmores, hes a senior). I asked her about it and she said shes going only as a friend, and that she doesnt like him at all. The thing is, this guy is nototius for hooking up with chicks. Im afraid somethign might happen and then im screwed. should I still go after the goal?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ever listen to pink floyd?
they have a song called run on the animals album.

lyrics are like " you gotta be able to pick up the easy meat ... with your eyes closed "


its good advise
 
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Do not become desperate. Be the alpha male, and independent, and she will like you all the more for it. Girls are fickle. Trust me.
 
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sounds like your screwed. honestly. with his rep, and it being prom and all... somethings gonna happen

move on.


also, if you avert all your attention to a new girl, she'll always wonder what she missed and come back to you after shes done with the other dude. well it's a possibility at least.
 
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My opinion is that your problem started a long time ago when you decided to focus all your efforts on ONE girl.

See it like a stock market portfolio - you need to keep a diverse slection of stocks. When one treats you badly, realize that you have made a poor choice in buying and immediately sell. When one treats you well, keep it and get as much life out of it as you can. Sell when the price starts going down.

Make sure you have a diverse portfolio.

hmmm i think i got this from a DJ newsletter
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good advice from Grim. Shes an option, if you approach more girls you'll have more options, thus one option wouldn't be as important to you.
It's like if your house set on fire and you couldn't live there anymore if it was your only house you'd be worse off than if it was one of your five houses.
 
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