"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hes trying to steal her!

hopetobePUA

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Ok, so ive been working on this one girl for a little bit now, and were getting closer, Im pulling her in. Then, this kid who I already hate asks her to prom, and she says yes (Were both sophmores, hes a senior). I asked her about it and she said shes going only as a friend, and that she doesnt like him at all. The thing is, this guy is nototius for hooking up with chicks. Im afraid somethign might happen and then im screwed. should I still go after the goal?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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ever listen to pink floyd?
they have a song called run on the animals album.

lyrics are like " you gotta be able to pick up the easy meat ... with your eyes closed "


its good advise
 

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Do not become desperate. Be the alpha male, and independent, and she will like you all the more for it. Girls are fickle. Trust me.
 

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sounds like your screwed. honestly. with his rep, and it being prom and all... somethings gonna happen

move on.


also, if you avert all your attention to a new girl, she'll always wonder what she missed and come back to you after shes done with the other dude. well it's a possibility at least.
 

Michael Chief

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My opinion is that your problem started a long time ago when you decided to focus all your efforts on ONE girl.

See it like a stock market portfolio - you need to keep a diverse slection of stocks. When one treats you badly, realize that you have made a poor choice in buying and immediately sell. When one treats you well, keep it and get as much life out of it as you can. Sell when the price starts going down.

Make sure you have a diverse portfolio.

hmmm i think i got this from a DJ newsletter
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good advice from Grim. Shes an option, if you approach more girls you'll have more options, thus one option wouldn't be as important to you.
It's like if your house set on fire and you couldn't live there anymore if it was your only house you'd be worse off than if it was one of your five houses.
 
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