"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"He's not really my type" hooks up with him anyways

Robert28

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I was talking to a female friend of mine yesterday and she told me something interesting and I wanted to get everyone's opinion. She went to an engagement party this weekend and told me about her best friend hooking up with one of the groomsman (the only groomsman there apparently from what she said, I guess the others had better sh!t to do then go to some stupid engagement party). Anyways, she admitted her friend was REALLY drunk and her friend kept saying all night the guy "wasn't her type" but apparently he persisted and it paid off....in the bathroom of all places. To each their own I guess but the only bathroom I'll ever hookup in is in my own d@mn house. I'm just weird about cleanliness I suppose and I don't trust other people cleanliness to my own.

This made me wonder, however. What happened here? Her friend is pretty hot and from the way she described the guy, he wasn't all that, just your average Joe from what I gathered. Did the booze help him even though her friend kept shooting him down all night long prior to her hooking up with him? Was it his persistence that paid off and if she shot him down numerous times all night what made him not fall on the side of the line of "being a creeper that can't take a hint and stalks a girl that's not interested" compared to "she's blowing you off and telling you you're not her type but you keep at it anyways and don't get labeled as a creeper stalker"? Could she perhaps have been hard up for some sex and he just happen to be at the right place at the right time with the right girl? How did all of her girlfriends manage not to c0ckblock this guy from banging her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've seen and experienced it before.
A chick I was trying to bang kept LMR-ing me and then I found out she was bonking another guy from my work.
He's definitely no oil painting, he was older than me (and looked older), had really bad teeth (I get compliments on my teeth), drove a sh!tty car, was divorced with two kids and, in my opinion, not mentally stable.
But she did it! One day (after nexting her and then eventually boning her a couple of times) I asked her why she did it and she said that she just gave in because he was so persistent.
So maybe persistence pays off? My ego won't let me persist past the first rejection but other guys on these boards have had some success with pushing on through the rebuffs.
 

Robert28

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Greasy Pig said:
I've seen and experienced it before.
A chick I was trying to bang kept LMR-ing me and then I found out she was bonking another guy from my work.
He's definitely no oil painting, he was older than me (and looked older), had really bad teeth (I get compliments on my teeth), drove a sh!tty car, was divorced with two kids and, in my opinion, not mentally stable.
But she did it! One day (after nexting her and then eventually boning her a couple of times) I asked her why she did it and she said that she just gave in because he was so persistent.
So maybe persistence pays off? My ego won't let me persist past the first rejection but other guys on these boards have had some success with pushing on through the rebuffs.
I stopped persisting with women who initially rejected me or made it harder for me to get with them then they did for other guys once I learned that "d@mn that was ALOT of work for some average/below average sex!" It always seemed to go hand in hand, the harder you worked for it, the bigger of a letdown it was. They would just lay there, it was boring as fvck. That's mainly why I don't persist anymore.

Another thing is usually when I find out a hot girl is banging/has banged a guy that I feel is WAY below me, I immediately lose attraction and interest in her. I get completely turned off. Like she'll go from a 9 to a 4 all of a sudden.
 

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Robert28 said:
I stopped persisting with women who initially rejected me or made it harder for me to get with them then they did for other guys once I learned that "d@mn that was ALOT of work for some average/below average sex!" It always seemed to go hand in hand, the harder you worked for it, the bigger of a letdown it was. They would just lay there, it was boring as fvck. That's mainly why I don't persist anymore.

Another thing is usually when I find out a hot girl is banging/has banged a guy that I feel is WAY below me, I immediately lose attraction and interest in her. I get completely turned off. Like she'll go from a 9 to a 4 all of a sudden.

I've experienced this in regards to chicks many times. To me it means the chick wouldn't date, be seen with, or take the dude seriously but would let him bang her for a ONS.

The second I hear that from a chick: "He's not really my type". Means he's not never her type. He's the type for a ONS if he plays his cards right.

I've seen and heard that nonsense one too many times. Best believe the chick will most likely fvck the dude IF he goes for it and it's quick. Hell some even wind up dating or in a relationship. Like as far as looks, or things to offer a complete mismatch. When chicks say "he's not really my type" it means they are thinking about him and considering if he is their type as shocking as the mismatch is. Then again the same type of chick almost always ends up as a low quality chick. Period.
 

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A chick told me that during our first date and ended up at her place later. I took it as a sh!t test because we were having a fun time. It depends on the context.

Before or after the date - My interest is low.
During the date - You're different, I wonder how your popsicle tastes.

'You're not really my type.'
You're right, I usually don't date your type.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you guys forget? never follow what a woman says, and the thing about persist or next is up to you maybe is worth maybe not, its up to you to tell, just never make her the only option that is the only thing you should never stop doing
 
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