"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Herpies!!!

Cheiradawg

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Straight to the point... should I go get tested?

I'm 21. I have slept with 5 women. Two of those being one night stands. Those are the only two girls that concern me.

Now both of those girls were two years ago. Maybe I'm tripping but sense then I've gotten bumbs on my boys three times.

1) Two bumbs - one on each side. Can't come up with a reason why they woudl be there.

2) A few bumbs - took a shower drunk and I know for a fact that I left soap/shampoo dry on my nuts. So I hope that did it.

3) One bumb on my left nut. This time I have gotten about 5 misqueto bites on other parts of my body that look just like the bumb on my nut so it could be that.

I really don't want to go to the doctor about this b/c my aunt is his nurse! So what do you guy think???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Frankie Poullain

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I can't say I know much about herpes, but if put under pressure I sure hell could draw a good picture of your nuts. :rolleyes:

Three lumps you say? Hell it could anything.. .. so you're definitely going to have to see your doctor. Your auntie being his nurse doesn't have to be a problem, patient/doctor confidentiality sees to that. Arrange an appointment by phone, because if you really are worried then you have to deal with the issue straight away. Hey, what's worse your boys being crusted up and out of action or some embarrassment from your aunt? This really shouldn't be hard to decide. THINK OF YOUR BOYS!!

Anyway, it's good that you're showing concern and checking your equipment (I must sound like your dad?), so I'm sure things will turn out fine, learn from this and just don't let yourself get into this situation again.
 

MrFitness880

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what you describe doesnt indicate herpes, but i certainly cant rule it out

go to a doctor and tell him/her what you told us

for this to show up 2 years after the sex you're concerned about does not make it sound like it is from those two incidents but again, i cant say that for certain

go to a doc

but dont freak yourself out man, you'll be fine :)
 

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remeber people just because you dont know symptoms of a virus does not mean you dont have it..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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penkitten

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if what you are experiencing with these bumps were herpes you would be in alot of pain.

afraidtoask.com
std.com
herpes.com
 

Cheiradawg

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Update

No Herpies on the boys.

Gain frabric softner didn't agree with my skin. I nexed it.
 

diablo

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Still, it's a good idea to get yourself tested anyway - go to the local Health Clinic, they should do it for under 20 bucks. Either that or risk passing on a STD to a girl that you might end up really caring for...
 
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