I love Hyori Lee
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I wanted to make a poll to see how common or uncommon Herpes is.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Herpes
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The Herpes virus can be contracted outside of sex; for instance, via exposure to body fluids, or just by skin-to-skin contact.
What country are you in?
The prevalenece rates for Herpes (by strain) in the US are:
68% of people carry HSV1.
26% of women carry HSV2.
In Australia, it's 79-80% for HSV1 and 11-15% for HSV2
What country are you in?
The prevalenece rates for Herpes (by strain) in the US are:
68% of people carry HSV1.
26% of women carry HSV2.
In Australia, it's 79-80% for HSV1 and 11-15% for HSV2
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Don't worry bout herpes. Its nothing and ppl get all hung up on it. If you suspect it, its up to you to disclose. Personally, I couldn't care less, its a risk to having sex with someone not tested and you must accept full responsibility.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Since most people never get tested for it cause in most people it shows no symptoms there is no way to know....I love Hyori Lee said:
Bible_Belt
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My ex-wife got it before she and I got married, but I never got it from her in seven years of sex without a condom.
Most herpes is spread shortly after being contracted. The virus is most active in the body right after infection, and then it goes down over time. Women who have had herpes for a while will come to know the tingling sensation that precedes an outbreak. That's why I never got herpes from my ex-wife; we simply did not have sex if she thought she might be getting an outbreak.
Daily meds like Valtrex or Famvir help most people keep outbreaks to a minimum.
Most herpes is spread shortly after being contracted. The virus is most active in the body right after infection, and then it goes down over time. Women who have had herpes for a while will come to know the tingling sensation that precedes an outbreak. That's why I never got herpes from my ex-wife; we simply did not have sex if she thought she might be getting an outbreak.
Daily meds like Valtrex or Famvir help most people keep outbreaks to a minimum.
I am John mccain and I approve of this message, HOWEVER............Herpes at this time is like the common cold...NO CURE.
Its costly and volunteering info is like revealing you are gay...........women quickly lose any sexual interest in you.
Its costly and volunteering info is like revealing you are gay...........women quickly lose any sexual interest in you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.