"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hernia's and Weightlifting Can They Be Prevented?

LoneSilver

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This subject I have not seen on here before and thought I would ask the question here since this is where most are bodybuilding, weightlifting, Powerlifting.

Hernia's can be caused by weightlifting like heavy lifts like Deadlifts, Squats etc., how do you condition yourself to avoid this does doing the crunches help strengthen this area around the belly where most annoying hernia's occur?

I have been free of this but several years ago while doing heavy squats I felt a burn that ran down into my lower belly down into my groin like I was on fire I stopped lifting for that day and thought oh sh*t I've done it now but the next time I did legs and squats all was good and continued to go up in weight.

Anyway, I am much older now and I sure hell don't want a freakin' hernia to mess me up at this stage and just need some reassurance that doing the crunches and building up in weight with the core exercises will prevent this hopefully or does anyone know?

And I don't want to forget about the groin hernia the key word is prevention but is it possible while lifting heavy or going up in weights doing compound exercises?

Thanks for any insight.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sufficient posterior core training for your individual needs; a lifting belt IF you feel you need the extra security (however I recommend building your core over using belts, wraps etc especially if your goal is bodybuilding).

And for ab training, crunches will not cut it if you want to lift heavy weights. You need to progressively add resistance to a full ROM ab movement such as decline situps (my personal favourite.. or most hated, same difference lol).
 

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Thanks Alex, though I haven't had any problems (knock on wood) but I'll have to start doing the decline situps with resistance and make it my favourite as well lol.

I am with you on the belt thing so far I haven't used one and I seem to be doing find on my compound exercises as far as adding weight weekly when I feel I can and I feel my midsection is good and tight.

Your advice and insight is excellent. The board would loose a great asset if you were to leave here.

LoneSilver

Warboss Alex said:
Sufficient posterior core training for your individual needs; a lifting belt IF you feel you need the extra security (however I recommend building your core over using belts, wraps etc especially if your goal is bodybuilding).

And for ab training, crunches will not cut it if you want to lift heavy weights. You need to progressively add resistance to a full ROM ab movement such as decline situps (my personal favourite.. or most hated, same difference lol).
 

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My opinion is that it's stupid to not use a belt. When you get up into the heavier weights, or even going for a PR, there's serious potential to injure yourself. All it takes is one concentration slip and its game over. Wear a belt, don't be dumb.
 

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Quiksilver said:
My opinion is that it's stupid to not use a belt. When you get up into the heavier weights, or even going for a PR, there's serious potential to injure yourself. All it takes is one concentration slip and its game over. Wear a belt, don't be dumb.
And you speak from years of powerlifting experience and intense study I presume.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky (Quik's sig)

Ummmm no. By definition, you can't miss a shot you don't take. Its like saying you failed a test because you didnt attempt it.
 
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