"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hernia's and Weightlifting Can They Be Prevented?

LoneSilver

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This subject I have not seen on here before and thought I would ask the question here since this is where most are bodybuilding, weightlifting, Powerlifting.

Hernia's can be caused by weightlifting like heavy lifts like Deadlifts, Squats etc., how do you condition yourself to avoid this does doing the crunches help strengthen this area around the belly where most annoying hernia's occur?

I have been free of this but several years ago while doing heavy squats I felt a burn that ran down into my lower belly down into my groin like I was on fire I stopped lifting for that day and thought oh sh*t I've done it now but the next time I did legs and squats all was good and continued to go up in weight.

Anyway, I am much older now and I sure hell don't want a freakin' hernia to mess me up at this stage and just need some reassurance that doing the crunches and building up in weight with the core exercises will prevent this hopefully or does anyone know?

And I don't want to forget about the groin hernia the key word is prevention but is it possible while lifting heavy or going up in weights doing compound exercises?

Thanks for any insight.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sufficient posterior core training for your individual needs; a lifting belt IF you feel you need the extra security (however I recommend building your core over using belts, wraps etc especially if your goal is bodybuilding).

And for ab training, crunches will not cut it if you want to lift heavy weights. You need to progressively add resistance to a full ROM ab movement such as decline situps (my personal favourite.. or most hated, same difference lol).
 

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Thanks Alex, though I haven't had any problems (knock on wood) but I'll have to start doing the decline situps with resistance and make it my favourite as well lol.

I am with you on the belt thing so far I haven't used one and I seem to be doing find on my compound exercises as far as adding weight weekly when I feel I can and I feel my midsection is good and tight.

Your advice and insight is excellent. The board would loose a great asset if you were to leave here.

LoneSilver

Warboss Alex said:
Sufficient posterior core training for your individual needs; a lifting belt IF you feel you need the extra security (however I recommend building your core over using belts, wraps etc especially if your goal is bodybuilding).

And for ab training, crunches will not cut it if you want to lift heavy weights. You need to progressively add resistance to a full ROM ab movement such as decline situps (my personal favourite.. or most hated, same difference lol).
 

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My opinion is that it's stupid to not use a belt. When you get up into the heavier weights, or even going for a PR, there's serious potential to injure yourself. All it takes is one concentration slip and its game over. Wear a belt, don't be dumb.
 

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Quiksilver said:
My opinion is that it's stupid to not use a belt. When you get up into the heavier weights, or even going for a PR, there's serious potential to injure yourself. All it takes is one concentration slip and its game over. Wear a belt, don't be dumb.
And you speak from years of powerlifting experience and intense study I presume.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky (Quik's sig)

Ummmm no. By definition, you can't miss a shot you don't take. Its like saying you failed a test because you didnt attempt it.
 
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