Floydispink01
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Thought I would share this story.
Couple of months ago I was dating this girl. Had a cool connection, good sex etc. All of a sudden she started going cold on me - You fella's know the drill. I would ask her out to meet and she would give excuse's and flake. I give her the benefit of the doubt and asked again - same result. Never heard from her again......
I thought f.ck it. I like this girl but i'm not trying again. I let her be and went about my life and continued meeting other chlcks. I wasn't going to chase.
Fast forward three months later and out of the blue she sends me a message apologising and asking how I was. I remained cool and polite and exchanged a few messages. We agreed to meet. I told her that I could do later this week and will let her know.
One of my hobbies is portrait paintings and I'm currently in the middle of doing a commission for someone. When I'm engaged in this I have no thoughts for women whatsoever - I'm completely immersed in my hobby.
So I considered meeting this girl but my priority was finishing this commission. I didn't reply back to her.
I've checked my phone today and I've had a few missed calls and four messages from her asking why i haven't replied, 'if your gonna be like this' blah blah blah. Maybe I should be polite to tell her that I'm busy but if I'm being honest - I can't be bothered! Plus I'm meeting a cute chick on Monday.
I know it's not rock n roll but the point of the story is:
1. Always immerse yourself in activities and situations that you can control.
2. Let go of things you can't control. It's possible they will re-appear when you least expect it.
3. Never let yourself be taken for granted.
Couple of months ago I was dating this girl. Had a cool connection, good sex etc. All of a sudden she started going cold on me - You fella's know the drill. I would ask her out to meet and she would give excuse's and flake. I give her the benefit of the doubt and asked again - same result. Never heard from her again......
I thought f.ck it. I like this girl but i'm not trying again. I let her be and went about my life and continued meeting other chlcks. I wasn't going to chase.
Fast forward three months later and out of the blue she sends me a message apologising and asking how I was. I remained cool and polite and exchanged a few messages. We agreed to meet. I told her that I could do later this week and will let her know.
One of my hobbies is portrait paintings and I'm currently in the middle of doing a commission for someone. When I'm engaged in this I have no thoughts for women whatsoever - I'm completely immersed in my hobby.
So I considered meeting this girl but my priority was finishing this commission. I didn't reply back to her.
I've checked my phone today and I've had a few missed calls and four messages from her asking why i haven't replied, 'if your gonna be like this' blah blah blah. Maybe I should be polite to tell her that I'm busy but if I'm being honest - I can't be bothered! Plus I'm meeting a cute chick on Monday.
I know it's not rock n roll but the point of the story is:
1. Always immerse yourself in activities and situations that you can control.
2. Let go of things you can't control. It's possible they will re-appear when you least expect it.
3. Never let yourself be taken for granted.