"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here's my MyBestFace report. take a look.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why was the last picture in that second link comparing you to a woman's photo? Furthermore, why did the 'straight' woman vote for her? Hahahaha.

I enjoyed this, pretty amusing.
 

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I don't know why she was comparing me to a woman's photo, but she must be closet lezzie lol.
 

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Pimpin' it up, hippy style. :cool:

Am I the only one who notices just how fake those *****es are on online dating sites? Just by looking at the voters. ****'s no different than going to a bar. Guess that explains why most of their "meet-ups" are at bars. Easy trash, I suppose. :moon:
 

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If Naughty Ninja's POF Number Grabs is any clue, online dating must be filled with the biggest sluts in the world. :woo:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol I used that feature of OKC. Seeing this makes me feel better about myself...most of my pics were in the 50-60 range I think, with my highest one being 78
 

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sageproduct said:
Lol I used that feature of OKC. Seeing this makes me feel better about myself...most of my pics were in the 50-60 range I think, with my highest one being 78

I'm trying it out now. How long does it take to find out if you look good or like hot crap? Is 50-60 good? Or average? I was looking at some of the people who did it. It's pretty funny!
 

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I think how long it takes depends on how many pictures you use.
First time I did it, i had three pics, started it in the afternoon (I think...)
and the report was ready when I woke up the next day.
This last one I had seven pics and I started it at 10:04 a.m. and it was finished
5:18 P.M. The next day...
Yeah, I think 60 is about average, anything less is crap IMO.
That's why I'm going to play around with different pics until I get a high scoring portfolio.
 

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I think how long it takes depends on how many pictures you use.
First time I did it, i had three pics, started it in the afternoon (I think...)
and the report was ready when I woke up the next day.
This last one I had seven pics and I started it at 10:04 a.m. and it was finished
5:18 P.M. The next day...
Yeah, I think 60 is about average, anything less is crap IMO.
That's why I'm going to play around with different pics until I get a high scoring portfolio.
I see ratios of "selected and rejected" do they base it on which other persons pic you match up against? Or your look? Or the place you took the picture in? Like a bathroom as opposed to climbing a wall?

It looks like it could be the actual picture itself and not just your look.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think it's based on the pics you're matched against, but also
personality types, think about the personalities of different chicks that go after
certain kinds of dudes. I would expect a gymnast or a cheerleader to be
more into jocks, goth chicks and punk chicks to be into rocker types (like me)
and artsy girls to be more attracted to artistic photos. I suppose it's a matter
of cross referencing personality types with photo types and the
individual styles inherent in each person.

note: self shot bathroom mirror pics are so last decade.
 

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Bumsniff said:
I'm trying it out now. How long does it take to find out if you look good or like hot crap? Is 50-60 good? Or average? I was looking at some of the people who did it. It's pretty funny!
Way too long, it takes them like a few days to generate the report.

50-60 is pretty damn bad haha. The score is just the percentage of time that somebody chooses your picture over someone else's. I mean just for the women's side, I remembered that only girls w/pictures 70 and above were remotely considerable
 

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Seems like an interesting way to see which pictures would be good to keep prominent.
 

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Seems like an interesting way to see which pictures would be good to keep prominent.
That's the idea behind it. I was reading one guy's guide to online dating and he said to ONLY include pics on your profile that scored 80 or above.
 

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^^that's great advice, dude. I'll keep that in mind.
Treat it like a video game; go for the high score!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sageproduct said:
That's the idea behind it. I was reading one guy's guide to online dating and he said to ONLY include pics on your profile that scored 80 or above.
Exactly what I was thinking.

I'll be giving this a shot here. Going to need to get some more pictures taken.
 

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Awhile back I put up a pic of the "prepare your anus" Ewok (with the words cropped out) and half the women chose it over whatever guy it was up against.
 

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That's the idea behind it. I was reading one guy's guide to online dating and he said to ONLY include pics on your profile that scored 80 or above.

Which would mean if you don't have any pictures scoring 80 or above don't bother even thinking about attempting online dating if youre a guy.

It's intruiging how some people seem to score others due to race or different ways they pick who over who based on the quality of the pictures too. Like you can tell one guy is much better looking than the other but the girl will score it for the white guy, or it's two of the same in looks guys and the girl will pick the one who looks like he's in some foreign country on vacation over the guy who is in his yard.

The quality of people does look much better than other sites tbh. Not necessarily in looks but just a bit higher in education and less on the crazy. For the most part that ive seen.
 

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Which would mean if you don't have any pictures scoring 80 or above don't bother even thinking about attempting online dating if youre a guy.
Lol, yup that's why I quit OKC lol only one out of my six or seven pics was in that range.
 

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I need more solo pictures. I have absolutely none within the last like, 3 years. I'll have to crop a couple.. how many pictures is good for a report?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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