"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Heres my dilemma...

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ok this is the first time im on these forums, made a few posts etc, it seems real nice.

anyways,

im a senior and i take Graphic Arts class at a seperate college (takes half the school day) and i go back to the regular school after i finish.

so, im attracted to this girl that might just be flirtacious towards me at the college, she sits by me at a table with two other boys that are not attracted to her. Yea, we talk a little bit here and there, almost not talking at all some days, but it isnt progressing further then that. should i just overcome my fears and ask her out?

heres the dilemma, i am in a wheelchair and very shy, i think of it as a roadblock, but aint sure, plz post mature advice, ty

ps, its my first "relationship" also
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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being in a wheel chair is no roadblock, if thats your only dilemma then i cant find a single reason for why you cannot ask her out. but build rapport first, be more flirty back to her.(read the bible for AMAZING tips on conversation and attraction) NEVER look at being in a wheelcharir as a roadblock (it is not a broken leg im presuming) no reason to see it that way. you can probably find a way to use it your advantage like : you want a ride to your locker? or somthing along the lines of C&F
 

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Being in a wheelchair might reduce your amount of attration when it comes to making an aproach. However I believe the possibilities of guys(even if their're inside a wheelchair) is limitless, but I believe once you cross that line of attraction and the girl know the real you, you won't have a prob.
 
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