"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Heres a tough one.. can lesbians be male attention *****s?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Homosexuality is a state of mind

So, yes

Edit: upon further reflection, this may become an issue. So until they've found a gene that accurately and without fail can predict, and is the determining factor of homosexuality, yes, it is a choice in the mind. Like believing you're possessed or that your freezer is trying to kill you
 

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reachinside said:
Homosexuality is a state of mind

So, yes

Edit: upon further reflection, this may become an issue. So until they've found a gene that accurately and without fail can predict, and is the determining factor of homosexuality, yes, it is a choice in the mind. Like believing you're possessed or that your freezer is trying to kill you
is this from field experience that lesbians are male attention wh0res?
 

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sure - but don't waste your time on lesbians, they're a headache and useless? they want other women, not men.
 

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absolutely, yes. I know a lesbian girl who has big fake boobs and is constantly, and I mean constantly engaging guys and flirting with them. it stems from low-self esteem more than anything else but it does happen.

also reachinside, I totally disagree with you about it being a choice. but I won't get into that ..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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