If you see a woman that you want to approach, pick out something that she's doing you can base your conversation out of. For example, if she's looking at CDs, approach her and just formally say "Hi. What's your name?" If she's interested she will respond to you, then you just further the conversation and ask her what kind of CDs is she looking for if anything. Listen closely when she answers because you need to pick topics off of her reply, Remember you have to do about 90% of the conversation! Good luck.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Here's a tip that worked for me.
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