"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Here's a theory.

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Why do you think women are so emotional?

From day one girls are taught more about relationship than boys. They drown in it. While boys are out playing sports, girls are playing relationship games. Hint: games? You get the point. So it's only natural for girls and women to be more aware of what's going on. Thereby, always reacting to new stimuli. They're racing to keep everything tracked and defined. That explains why they are always asking 'Where's this relationship going?' type questions. Due to their keen awareness, they also are quick to see patterns of behaivor. So if they're bored, frustrated, or angry, they're are easily positioned to play head games. This may be the reason why dumb girls are nice. They don't notice everything.

So, my theory is: Women are not more emotional than men, they have more of them. And yes, men are emotional too. It just happens at a slower pace.


So much on this forum addresses men having game. Which, to me, is not much more than keeping a step ahead of women. Which is challanging to women, and they seem to like it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Societal roles


and hormones
 
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when I was 10. Every girl watched Beverly Hills 90210.
when I turned 20 the OC came along.

There was probably a few others in between.

If these shows were about happy, working relationships, no one would watch them, because they aren't very interesting, unless you're involved in them.

When you listen to music, how many songs are about everything going swimmingly?

Take an entire CD. Any CD popular with young girls. Britney Spears for example.

There will be a bunch of songs about being deeply inlove and such, but then there will be songs about getting dumped, or catching them cheating or whatever.

Girls are taught to fall in love and have problems.

Guys are taught to love sports and play air guitar.

thats the difference.
 
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Men and women are like protons and electrons spinning around a nucleus. AFC's are the neutrons taking up space.

Men are the earth, women are the moon. Men mind the big things, women mind the little things.

The order is in place, now do your job.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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