I just now tested a new opener I thought of today on an attractive 40 something...it worked!
Not to brag or anything like that, not my style, but I thought of it today after a not so successful approach(I saw a Sexy, Beautiful under 20 something girl outside the gym I work out at, approached her, then failed miserably!!!)After the disappointing approach, I asked myself:
"What went wrong? How can I improve, or adjust, my approach so that it doesn't happen again?" And within a few minutes, the opener popped into my head WITHOUT me having to think of the answer!
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TIP:
If you ask yourself these sorts of questions; questions that seek improvement or production in your performance, enough times, after every disappointing experience with women (If your a beginner, there will be a lot of these in the beginning)then your mind, sooner than later, begins to form these performance-improving answers FOR YOU ... then, you won't need to stop and reflect becuase the answers will arrive AUTOMATICALLY!
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It's amazing the answers your mind gives you IF you just ask it the right questions.
So, I have the opener. Then within a few minutes, I see the attractive forty something year old woman, so I use it on her:
ME:
"oh my GOD, you're that celebrity. I saw you in [name a movie or just say "in that movie" to make it look like you don't remember the name of the movie]that movie! Here, give me your autograph. [hand her
your pen. Make sure you have pen and paper handy BEFORE you approach her. Write it here [hand her the paper]
If the opener is successful, and in order for it to be successful you have to be playful, confident, and energetic or exuding a positive vibe...
This is why I STRONGLY recommend you "fix" your InnerGame before
you use ANY Opener. Otherwise, you'll just look phony and she'll reject you faster than the speed of LIGHTING!
...then she'll smile and respond by saying something like "That's very cute of you" --- I don't know exactly what the girl YOU approach (Which you should do IMMEDIATELY After you read this email...if your InnerGame is Strong, that is.)will say. This is what the woman I used the opener on said to me today.
After she she made her comment, I said: "Okay, Okay, I understand
your trying to keep a low profile so you don't alert the
paparazzi, and your probably afriad I'll just sell your autograph
on eBay or something, so just write down your name, number,
and your favorite resuarant ... and yeah, don't forget to
write down the best time I can pick you up tonight."
Then she smiled and said, "you must get all the girls with that personality." She knew I was hitting on her. When you use this approach, and it's worth repeating, remember to keep a light-hearted, playful attitude about it. Your there to break to the ice and create attraction by demonstrating that you are a fun, positive, and interesting MAN, not to get some, not yet at least!
After she made that comment, she began drilling me with questions, "so where are you from? what brings you to ...? Are you an actor, singer, dancer?"
And get this: she was MARRIED!!!
Well, Im not the kind of guy who breaks up a happy marriage, so I did not pursue the seduction, but I did leave her feeling a lot better than she was before ... something you should ALWAYS strive to do with women ... enhance their life in one way or another (make it by making her feel desires, beautiful, or listened to) and the Gods of Love and Seduction will bless you with many more successful seductions and sexual experiences!
I live in L.A. so the opener may have worked with success becuase of that, but I don't see any major reason why it won't work anywhere else in the country or in the world for that matter ...if your InnerGame is strong of course, which brings me to my next point:
Something that I noticed about openers, at least for me, is that they only work -- even if your inner game is strong --- like one or two times in a row then they get old and don't pack the same punch that they did in the beginning. This is why I like to mix my openers up by using a different opener everytime then repeating the process all over again with the same openers in the exact same or similar order as before.
This is only when I use prescripted openers, ofcourse. Usually, I do things naturally but there are times when I "discover" an opener that works magic. I keep these openers written down on a piece and in my pocket for times I want "guaranteed" success with starting conversations with women.
I suggest you do the same for more success with opening sets.
Not to brag or anything like that, not my style, but I thought of it today after a not so successful approach(I saw a Sexy, Beautiful under 20 something girl outside the gym I work out at, approached her, then failed miserably!!!)After the disappointing approach, I asked myself:
"What went wrong? How can I improve, or adjust, my approach so that it doesn't happen again?" And within a few minutes, the opener popped into my head WITHOUT me having to think of the answer!
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TIP:
If you ask yourself these sorts of questions; questions that seek improvement or production in your performance, enough times, after every disappointing experience with women (If your a beginner, there will be a lot of these in the beginning)then your mind, sooner than later, begins to form these performance-improving answers FOR YOU ... then, you won't need to stop and reflect becuase the answers will arrive AUTOMATICALLY!
------
It's amazing the answers your mind gives you IF you just ask it the right questions.
So, I have the opener. Then within a few minutes, I see the attractive forty something year old woman, so I use it on her:
ME:
"oh my GOD, you're that celebrity. I saw you in [name a movie or just say "in that movie" to make it look like you don't remember the name of the movie]that movie! Here, give me your autograph. [hand her
your pen. Make sure you have pen and paper handy BEFORE you approach her. Write it here [hand her the paper]
If the opener is successful, and in order for it to be successful you have to be playful, confident, and energetic or exuding a positive vibe...
This is why I STRONGLY recommend you "fix" your InnerGame before
you use ANY Opener. Otherwise, you'll just look phony and she'll reject you faster than the speed of LIGHTING!
...then she'll smile and respond by saying something like "That's very cute of you" --- I don't know exactly what the girl YOU approach (Which you should do IMMEDIATELY After you read this email...if your InnerGame is Strong, that is.)will say. This is what the woman I used the opener on said to me today.
After she she made her comment, I said: "Okay, Okay, I understand
your trying to keep a low profile so you don't alert the
paparazzi, and your probably afriad I'll just sell your autograph
on eBay or something, so just write down your name, number,
and your favorite resuarant ... and yeah, don't forget to
write down the best time I can pick you up tonight."
Then she smiled and said, "you must get all the girls with that personality." She knew I was hitting on her. When you use this approach, and it's worth repeating, remember to keep a light-hearted, playful attitude about it. Your there to break to the ice and create attraction by demonstrating that you are a fun, positive, and interesting MAN, not to get some, not yet at least!
After she made that comment, she began drilling me with questions, "so where are you from? what brings you to ...? Are you an actor, singer, dancer?"
And get this: she was MARRIED!!!
Well, Im not the kind of guy who breaks up a happy marriage, so I did not pursue the seduction, but I did leave her feeling a lot better than she was before ... something you should ALWAYS strive to do with women ... enhance their life in one way or another (make it by making her feel desires, beautiful, or listened to) and the Gods of Love and Seduction will bless you with many more successful seductions and sexual experiences!
I live in L.A. so the opener may have worked with success becuase of that, but I don't see any major reason why it won't work anywhere else in the country or in the world for that matter ...if your InnerGame is strong of course, which brings me to my next point:
Something that I noticed about openers, at least for me, is that they only work -- even if your inner game is strong --- like one or two times in a row then they get old and don't pack the same punch that they did in the beginning. This is why I like to mix my openers up by using a different opener everytime then repeating the process all over again with the same openers in the exact same or similar order as before.
This is only when I use prescripted openers, ofcourse. Usually, I do things naturally but there are times when I "discover" an opener that works magic. I keep these openers written down on a piece and in my pocket for times I want "guaranteed" success with starting conversations with women.
I suggest you do the same for more success with opening sets.