"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Here's a few pics of me
- Thread starter wheelin&dealin
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mercury21
Don Juan
what the hell was that second picture about!?!?
j/k
Good job on the work out, though.
j/kGood job on the work out, though.
DIESEL
Master Don Juan
Good definition, good leg development, and the upper body is not bad, although your chest could stand for some more mass.. then you'd look really impressive. I think right now that's the missing link.
I'd say if you can maintain that level of definition, but rock it out at like 215, then you'd look like a fukkin' stud.
Also, hit the tanning booth!! You'll look even more muscular with some color on that pale ass skin!
keep up the good work.
P.S. That second shot worries me. It looks like you ready to take it from some big black dude called Tiny.
I'd say if you can maintain that level of definition, but rock it out at like 215, then you'd look like a fukkin' stud.
Also, hit the tanning booth!! You'll look even more muscular with some color on that pale ass skin!
keep up the good work.
P.S. That second shot worries me. It looks like you ready to take it from some big black dude called Tiny.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
It was for a "Glute Comparison Thread" over at another forum.Originally posted by Mercury21
what the hell was that second picture about!?!?
BTW, the big black dude's name is Leroy.
The Great Juan
Don Juan
You look great man, like DIESEL said, you pecs could stand to be a bit bigger but i'm being picky, what's your chest workout anyway?
I'm envious of your definition, when i started lifting 5 months ago i was skin and bones at 120 pounds but at least i had abs, now i'm nearly 150 but abs are nowhere to be seen....
ask me if i care though...
I'm envious of your definition, when i started lifting 5 months ago i was skin and bones at 120 pounds but at least i had abs, now i'm nearly 150 but abs are nowhere to be seen....
ask me if i care though...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
The great juan...do you care ?
The Great Juan
Don Juan
Elimidate
..........nope
Because they'll be back in a few months along with my new slabs of muscle, of course by then it'll be time to start bulking again...i gotta get to 170, i know i can do it by the end of this year! Well i don't know for sure but i'm going to give it a hell of a try
..........nope
Because they'll be back in a few months along with my new slabs of muscle, of course by then it'll be time to start bulking again...i gotta get to 170, i know i can do it by the end of this year! Well i don't know for sure but i'm going to give it a hell of a try