"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mackdaddy27

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Some of you DJ's are apprehensive about making that first call to a women,

WHat I started doing this, it helped me greatly, what I do is that right before the call
I list out like 4-5 things that are I plan on using..


Basically I list out like 4-5 things, that convey the type of attraction spikes and/or comfort building areas , ONLY in case I get jammed in a phone instead
of a dead silence I know what to say and kinda BE ABLE To lead the conversation without hesitation. Trust me, Only a super genious is able to pull off a first call without hesitation.

Typically, I would right down any type of

* things I want to bust her on
* ****y funny statements
* any kind of DHV statements
* any kind of role playing
* any kind of frame I want to present
* some funny stories or statements
* the first thing you are going to say your opener

Anyway, the point is ..in this game you need to plan things out, and kind of structure yourself will greatly help with the game..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJs don't have any issues with this, but chumps do.

Also, C+F/negs can backfire without eye-contact, as they depend on visual/subliminal responses from yourself and her. (ie, you laughing/smiling showing you mean it in jest, but the thought plantation still goes ahead anyway)
 

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well I think its a beautiful idea and heres why..

in orde for you to win, you must convey some crucial sub communications
whether that be through you vocality, phyically and verbally

when you on the phone its pure verbal gameand you have to make and hit those points that convey your higher status. This sets that stage up for that except that your not running around talking all sorts of things. Your sweet and hit the spot.
 

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You already have her number. You can stop the ****y funny. It's time to build some kind of connection. That won't happen until you see her again.

Just let her know you like to have fun, with or without friends, and invite her to be a part of your fun.

Keep it simple on the phone. Be quick and clear on what you are proposing for the meet up.

If she's attracted to you, she'll be more than willing to hang out.
 

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this probably is not really advice to DJ already but i think its necessary for those in training. first time i called was horrible lots of empty space and that was to her answering machine!!! another girl was also pretty bad conversation died out in like the one minute mark, when she sad she just woke up and was sleepy it just threw all my plans out for some reason. i think its a good idea to write some backup
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alle_Gory

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Dante420 said:
What's a DHV statement?
I think it means Demonstrating High Value. Its a term dweebs use so they can remember the rules of mating. If you were already dominant, you wouldn't need to remember sh*t like this. You would just *be*.

But this makes sense. In order to be a mack daddy (like a pimp), you got to be very manipulative. Lots of smoke and mirrors sh*t to awe the audience. In this case the one or several women being seduced for various uses. Macks usually aren't very dominant by nature, otherwise they would be self-sufficient as well and wouldn't need to rely on the females for support. However they must appear that way in order to get the positive response from women. Women are attracted to the appearance of strength, real or fake.

FYI:
Strengths are things like physical ability, intelligence, verbal skills, creativity... etc. More is better unless it comes at a cost of another strength. For example, being so intelligent that you can't talk properly and you look like a twig. The extreme intelligence has a overall negative impact on the man.
 

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Why dont you try and act funny and c0cky just naturally and go with the flow. Easy
 

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I do this for some of my business calls. Works great, lets me stay on task.

I'd recommend for people using this, make them bullet points to hit on, not a running script.

Edit: Dyslexia
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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