"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Think Im going to agree with bigneil on this one as well - most of the time the women I end up having sex with I meet cold and quickly proceed to that - if they end up as friends or part of a "familiar" social group the chances of it happening end up decreasing.

I have no research to back this up, just personal experience.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think Lexington had a very good observation about social circle being effective for LTRs, but potentially disastrous if you're pumping and dumping. I really don't like the idea of any blowback I caused falling on my mates.
 
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Expanding your social circle is the best way to meet women. I'm not talking about facebook here. Facebook is bullsh1t and useless.

I mean expanding PERSONAL connections. OFFline. But it is also something that is very hard to do. Especially in a city where people keep to themselves.
 
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SgtSplacker said:
It can work both ways. I used to be pretty popular in High School for doing crazy stuff back then. And if I hang with my HS crew and there's a new girl in the group their regard for me makes me look good, and I definitely notice it rubs off on the girls that practically try to game me rather than me gaming them. Then there's work groups where it seems you have to freaking game her in morse code just to not draw everyone's attention and get blocked by someone hating.
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Work groups tend to be full of douchebags trying to one-up the next guy. I see it all the time. Work more on personal connections outside of onling and work stuff.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This site keeps trying to rationalize everything to make themselves feel better....No no I don't have many friends so I don't agree with it, or, I have a huge social circle but girls only view me as friends and not lovers, I don't agree with it.

There is no right or wrong way. Just don't say dumb things and get it done.
 
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