"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here is what an HB10 looks like

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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StevenR said:
I don't think there are many woman that can be called perfect HB10's out there, but this is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in this video(not the little girl at the beginning obviously but the adult woman singing)-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwYjZij6ATA&feature=related

Here are couple more with this HB10.5 chick-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLHleQ5BI3o&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGZ9mYVV5s0

This is never going to work. Everyone has different tastes-- I happen to think that chic is like a 7.5. I went out on a date with an Egyptian girl who looks just like the woman in that video. I was not into it at all, though I am sure that there would be tons of guys who would like her.
 

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wow was that video awful. Except for pouring the jug of water into her mouth. That part was ok.

That singer looks like Iqqi, who btw is on the nextlevelgame site if you want to talk to her. :flowers:
 

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thanks for the laugh. I lose a ****load of money in stocks today, I needed this.


seriously, where was the girl, all i saw was little girl and old ladies.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is exactly why the HB# system is bullshit and a terrible label for women. One guy's 10 is another guy's 7. Does it really matter if she's fairly beautiful or super beautiful? Are we seriously trying to quantify degrees of hotness as if it's something we can actually comprehend?

People constantly post stuff like this:
"So I was with these two girls, an HB8.5 and an HB9.0..."

Gee thanks for that in-depth analysis of the hot-factor of these two prospects. All that tells me is that you were with two pretty ladies that you're intending to pursue. Is it really necessary to specify some BS unit of measurement to get the point across that you're talking to two attractive women? Does it really matter how beautiful a girl is, as long as she meets your physical requirements for a mate?

Seriously guys, drop the numbers. If it's really important for everyone to know exactly how attractive a girl is (to you), then learn to use some adjectives, like these:

cute
pretty
hot
pretty hot
very hot
smoking hot
drop dead gorgeous
unattractive

Notice how there's only one word to describe unattractive women. As if anyone gives a shit about how hot the girl you're talking to is, nobody fucking cares about how ugly she might be.

/rant
 

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At first I thought this was going to be another joke thread about that one weird looking Asian chic that keeps getting passed around net forums.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
wow was that video awful. Except for pouring the jug of water into her mouth. That part was ok.

That singer looks like Iqqi, who btw is on the nextlevelgame site if you want to talk to her. :flowers:
this is what Iqqi look like?! (AFC looking smiley in love blushing with red hearts popping out of top)
I figured I would get some disagreements, now we know who the gay people on here are-jk
Most of the so-called HB10's I have seen look like fake bimbos you would see working in Hooters or something. I thought this woman had a classic beauty to her, but to each his own.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's beautiful, but I don't like her look-at-me me me attitude.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I guess it just depends on the person looking at it. I would not rate 10.
 

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Personally i think the rating system is gay

why put a level on hotness?? It sounds so nerdy to me.

"ZOMG i just talk to a hot chick. this one's level 10!!"

My only two ratings on my scale is "damn fine" or "not fine"

that's really all you need
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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