Here is the main problem

[Beginner1]

I agree first hand that going to clubs or bars to meet people are probably the worst place to meet someone, agreed, but, when everyone goes to a club or bar it is a known fact that people go there to meet other people. People are looking at the opposite sex with possible interest in them. Girls will let a guy know she has an attraction or interest in them very easily in these places. A few looks, a smile.

When I go to a public place (ex. bookstore,supermarket ) This is not true at all. I, like many other people I'm sure, are not comfortable approaching someone who has not showed any interest than the initial look at you. I wouldn't approach someone if they did not give me more than just one look. Therefore how are people having success in public places?

 

[GREAT WHITE SHARK]

everywhere is a place to find a good woman

 

[Beginner1]

I believe that to be true but in public places you can never pick up if a girl has any interest in you in these places. Still wondering how it is done?

 

[Wiesman44]

whats wrong with finding girls at bars or clubs ? You find girls that are actually looking for guys. You just need the game to get them.

 

[PoloBlue]

a lot of times I run into friendly women working in a dept. store that make lots of eye contact, but it's hard to tell when they are just doing there job or they are attracted to you?

since they act friendly in an in-personal way, sometimes they think Im trying to pick up on them then I hear them to talk to co-workers about their boyfriend or husband, etc.

like: my boyfriend came over this weekend and blah, blah, blah...

my son needs a baby sitter, etc.

lots of them are taken.