"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Here Is The Key To Women

THEGREATONE

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I have read these posts for a long time and have used all the tips and have some to an idea that has helped me tremendously.

If men just start with the conclusion that WOMAN ARE CRAZY them us men will never lose our sanity.

Here is a personal experience: A girl that I dated seriously calls me up one day. I knew beforehand that she was friends with an ex. She calls to tell me that her ex got kicked out of the house, and is staying in her apt. To make it even better, she has the nerve to tell me that he is sleeping in the same bed with her and she is not having sex with him.

Even better, this guy has prior drug convictions etc.

What did I do? Honesty I did the human thing and was not happy, but realized that she cannot help it because she is at the lower end of the evolution scale in terms of cognitve function. SHE IS CRAZY...........


I think if we all start with that we will never be surprised, never be upset......BAM
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Davezz

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dude if shes youre gf? if she says that youre supposed to be mad man
 

Outofexile

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Think of this dude. If you had an ex staying at your place, sleeping in your bed, and grubbing off of you, would she be cool with it? Are we to assume that your girl doesnt own something as convient as a couch for him to sleep on, much less an air mattress?

Dude, the guy is banging the **** out of your old lady while filling her nose full of powder. Accept and move on to less tainted goods.

Besides, why would you want a chick that has the character to be with a guy that does a bunch of drugs? I think I would be demanding a STD screen before I would get with that one...
 

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Listen to the comments above because this is unforgivable. If it was her sister, brother or friend that this is acceptable but her ex. I would have told her to **** off. Why? because her ex probably has a sister, brother or a friend he could stay with.

Good information for people to read but this type of action cannot be tolerated.
 

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I don't know about this.

You might want to check your evolution scale again... I think you suffered from a massive brain fart while you were sorting this all out..This is what I think ThEGREATONE was.

LoneSilver

THEGREATONE said:
What did I do? Honesty I did the human thing and was not happy, but realized that she cannot help it because she is at the lower end of the evolution scale in terms of cognitve function. SHE IS CRAZY...........


I think if we all start with that we will never be surprised, never be upset......BAM
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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