"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Here is my current mental block: Trying not to be a circus monkey.

Poonani Maker

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We know that making women laugh puts them at ease and lowers their defenses. How do you balance making her laugh and being serious with her? Or should you always be not serious with her? Or only serious with her when you two are alone and not around friends and other people? Should you always keep it light and playful when around a group of people never showing your affections in front of other people?

I have this problem of trying not to be her entertainment monkey. I don't want her to just think of me as her friend, as being a pushover for her. Too many women will try to box you in like that. I forever don't get boxed in with their ideas of me. I let them know that their ideas or pictures of me are not valid and that she's off her rocker, so to speak.

Women want the conversationalist in men as they have it with their women girlfriends. I see women getting along (maybe out on dates) and laughing it up with the guy she's with seemingly having a good grand ole time. A woman having such a good time like that is most likely fvcking the dude who's making her laugh out in public - Am I wrong in this assumption? Is this dude putting in all this effort to make her laugh and feel good just wasting his time? Is it dependent on the woman? Some women fvck that, some don't? We never know who she's fvcking?

How do you open the door to her puss?

I want to know.

How does that gaping hole get entered?

How do we attack that target?

I'm going out this weekend at all costs and implementing your suggestions here. Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How about being intimate? You don't have to be constantly ha-ha funny as long as you've got a lot more going for you romantically and as boyfriend material.
 

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Should I ask this chick out this weekend who's wanted me for so long? Or with this be my downfall with her because I've prolonged our first date for so long because I was still trying others. I've kinda been an ass to her. Feel kinda bad.
 
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