"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Here is my current mental block: Trying not to be a circus monkey.

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We know that making women laugh puts them at ease and lowers their defenses. How do you balance making her laugh and being serious with her? Or should you always be not serious with her? Or only serious with her when you two are alone and not around friends and other people? Should you always keep it light and playful when around a group of people never showing your affections in front of other people?

I have this problem of trying not to be her entertainment monkey. I don't want her to just think of me as her friend, as being a pushover for her. Too many women will try to box you in like that. I forever don't get boxed in with their ideas of me. I let them know that their ideas or pictures of me are not valid and that she's off her rocker, so to speak.

Women want the conversationalist in men as they have it with their women girlfriends. I see women getting along (maybe out on dates) and laughing it up with the guy she's with seemingly having a good grand ole time. A woman having such a good time like that is most likely fvcking the dude who's making her laugh out in public - Am I wrong in this assumption? Is this dude putting in all this effort to make her laugh and feel good just wasting his time? Is it dependent on the woman? Some women fvck that, some don't? We never know who she's fvcking?

How do you open the door to her puss?

I want to know.

How does that gaping hole get entered?

How do we attack that target?

I'm going out this weekend at all costs and implementing your suggestions here. Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about being intimate? You don't have to be constantly ha-ha funny as long as you've got a lot more going for you romantically and as boyfriend material.
 

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Should I ask this chick out this weekend who's wanted me for so long? Or with this be my downfall with her because I've prolonged our first date for so long because I was still trying others. I've kinda been an ass to her. Feel kinda bad.
 
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