asa_don said:
don't you think there is already a downfall when she is cheating? how about when you bang a chick and don't find out until later about a bf? didn't you partake in her cheating?
If a chick lies about her boyfriend, I didnt knowingly commit a selfish act against someone elses relationship. There lies the difference. I didnt selfishly disregard another persons relationship if the woman lied to me about it. Thats the point.
I could date a woman who was hoodwinked into being the other woman by dirtbag liar. I could never date a woman who knowingly slept with a guy who had a girlfriend and showed no remorse. The latter is blatant selfish behavior...the former isnt. Understand?
if she was hot enough for your liking, made your d1ck hard enough, you would be singing a different tune.
Been there, and no I didnt do it. Stop trying so hard buddy. Some guys have their own morals about this sorta thing. And some guys are able to turn down sex. I control my desires...my desires dont control me.
that is true, but when you are getting good quality vagaina, guys aren't going to turn it down.
Certain guys will, other guys wont. I dont consider skanky sluts who sleep around as quality.
you're joining in the "hypocrisy" too, if you're relegating her to a fvk buddy, aren't you? what happened to your high morals not associating with a "bad person" or a "slut" as you call her? wouldn't you call them out on what they're doing and not be friends or fvck buddies with them? nice contradiction. lol. where's your morals and willpower? lol. aren't you a hypocrite too? you're sleeping with a woman you don't respect as a fwb. you're a hypocrite man. why aren't you calling them out and walking away? you have them as friends and fwb. lol.
Dude you have a hard time understanding. If a woman tries to hook up with me while she has a man, I have nothing to do with her at all. She came into my life acting low quality.
If I meet a girl who in the past has been involved in cheating, I miiight...small chance...date her casually, but I would never get serious with her. She didnt come into my life acting low quality...therefore I dont immediately stop talking to her...but her past means she doesnt have a good chance of dating me.
No hypocrisy here. The first situation is a woman approaching me in what I deem a slutty and negative manner. The second situation is me meeting a woman who fvked up in the past...and though she just might be a decent girl nowadays, her past prevents me from dating her seriously. But if shes done some really unsavory things, I just keep things on a friendly level and find a girl more to my liking. No need for me to call out a woman who isnt currently doing something shady...why create drama? Its fine for me to call out a woman whos trying to cheat with me because shes seeking to bring drama into my life.
Can you comprehend all that?
you said you're ok with relegating them to friends or fvk buddies, so what's the problem?
Why am I going to sleep with a girl whos a risk to my health, and who I consider dirty because she sleeps with dirty dudes? No thanks.
there's a good chance you won't find out if you're never told about it.
I would. Trust me when I say I vet women well before any sort of commitment. And word gets around about low quality behavior.
why are you keeping low quality women around yourself if you think it's so bad? you're not going to be able to vet everything.
So because I cant find out everything, I shouldnt minimize my chances of getting what I consider a low quality woman? Thats bullsh!t logic.
why should we be done with a good discussion just because you say so? you said you relegate them to fvk buddies so aren't you sleeping with them too? drop the moral act if you're partaking in what normal men do as well, you are no different keeping them as friends and fvk buddies. aren't you risking your health with fwb? you're a hypocrite.
No, learn to read. I dont sleep with women whom I dont respect, and I dont sleep with women I deem a health risk. If I meet a chick whos trying to cheat or who has a promiscuous reputation, I have nothing to do with her romantically.
If you think its normal to be a douchebag that screws low quality women and taken women...then have at it. It may be "normal" but I dont think its the right thing or the best thing to do. I have my own personal ego about who I screw...I like to feel that the women I bed want a high value man. Low quality b!tches and women who cheat generally screw lame orbiters or dudes I deem low value. How am I a high value man if I am screwing a low quality woman or a woman whos getting railed by another guy?
Thats just how I view sex for myself. I want to have sex with a foxy girl who has some class, and who also sees high value in me. I cant see the situation as such if a woman is basically using me as a side play thing. Are we done with this derailment? You can PM me if you really think this is worth discussion. We are just men of different morals and standards here really.