"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Da Realist

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piranha45 said:
hey man cut them some slack, they got nuked twice.
Ok, they are basically making it possible to for any guy to get the "hot" Asian woman they have been dreaming about so I guess they get a little slack for that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There is a problem in Japan culture right now. The young people are confused.
 

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Hey men as a whole will be getting worse but what ever they are *****s and don't want to change just will make it easy for us to get anything we want. Imagine haveing 100 of these *****s walking around and a hb9 and you walk up to her stop her and tell her she's sexy she'd **** you right there.
 

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you know, i could really give a crap less about what other people do with their own lives especially people that are 1000's of miles away and that i don't know.

if they want to be gay, i could care less.

however, i will give my opinion that there have always been people out there that were gay, or embraced the opposite gender than what they are more than the gender of what they are currently... but i think it is just more acceptable these days. what with all the people in the us standing up for gay and lesbian rights and all.


oh ok, so the article didn't exactly call them gay.
it said they were from japan, and that they were guys who liked to have a good appearance, didn't want to pursue sex and wanted to be in the ljbf zone.
alright, who else thought the first thing i did ? i thought "well, if those japanese would have just let people have their children instead of telling them they could only have one child (whereas they all wanted sons) and now their nation is overpopulated with boys (no doubt some parents were so tickled that they were boys that they didnt care how masculine or feminine they became in their lives) there wouldn't be such a shortage of women (which in turn seems to have actually turned some of these guys into feminine creatures )???

their country only has themselves to blame for making that dumbass rule.
 

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Danger said:
I think it is China that has that rule. If I remember correctly I think that Japan actually has an inverted population problem, meaning that they are top heavy on age with couples having fewer children. Sort of like ten years ahead of the problem the USA will face with the baby boomers retiring and having a smaller percentage of the population working and generating wealth.
swear to god, i thought they had the same rule.
well forget whatever i said above:)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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penkitten said:
you know, i could really give a crap less about what other people do with their own lives especially people that are 1000's of miles away and that i don't know.

if they want to be gay, i could care less.

however, i will give my opinion that there have always been people out there that were gay, or embraced the opposite gender than what they are more than the gender of what they are currently... but i think it is just more acceptable these days. what with all the people in the us standing up for gay and lesbian rights and all.


oh ok, so the article didn't exactly call them gay.
it said they were from japan, and that they were guys who liked to have a good appearance, didn't want to pursue sex and wanted to be in the ljbf zone.
alright, who else thought the first thing i did ? i thought "well, if those japanese would have just let people have their children instead of telling them they could only have one child (whereas they all wanted sons) and now their nation is overpopulated with boys (no doubt some parents were so tickled that they were boys that they didnt care how masculine or feminine they became in their lives) there wouldn't be such a shortage of women (which in turn seems to have actually turned some of these guys into feminine creatures )???

their country only has themselves to blame for making that dumbass rule.
lol dude you need to educate yourself before throwing around stuff you heard on your local news or through the grapevine as fact. The one child policy/everyone wanting sons is not true at all.
 

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Inquisitus said:
Are there really more betas out there than ever? Or are betas now more prominent with the advent of free broadcasting (vis a vis Y-tube, facebook, blogs, twitter, forums)?

It seems to me that alpha's have better things to do than post stuff in the media.
If there aren't more, then at the very least it's become trendy to be beta, which will only encourage more betas to give up on their true natural calling.
 

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Desert Fox said:
lol dude you need to educate yourself before throwing around stuff you heard on your local news or through the grapevine as fact. The one child policy/everyone wanting sons is not true at all.
um dude is it?
i can admit that i was wrong on which country could only have one child (china not japan, my bad) if you can admit that you are a flaming butthole for how you spoke to me in this thread.
you can feel free to educate yourself about the chinese one child law , that forced so many families to abort , give daughters up for adoption and even kill them.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One-child_policy
http://www.gendercide.org/case_infanticide.html
 

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piranha45 said:
hey man cut them some slack, they got nuked twice.
Yeah, they almost apologized for WW2 but they still got some making up to do for inventing Karaoke .
I don't hear anyone over there saying. " So solly for what we doing to that Flank Sinatra song 'My Way'..."
 

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Da Realist said:
Ok, they are basically making it possible to for any guy to get the "hot" Asian woman they have been dreaming about so I guess they get a little slack for that.
you white people and your fantasies
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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penkitten said:
um dude is it?
i can admit that i was wrong on which country could only have one child (china not japan, my bad) if you can admit that you are a flaming butthole for how you spoke to me in this thread.
you can feel free to educate yourself about the chinese one child law , that forced so many families to abort , give daughters up for adoption and even kill them.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One-child_policy
http://www.gendercide.org/case_infanticide.html
Did you even read those links? Read up on gender-selected abortion/infanticide and how it is illegal in China. It's right there on the wiki page you linked. :yawn:

Other asian countries don't do it either. Look, about respect on the internet, don't take it too seriously. Your life will be much less stressful that way if you're not so sensitive about everything. You're welcome.
 

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penkitten said:
you know, i could really give a crap less about what other people do with their own lives especially people that are 1000's of miles away and that i don't know.

if they want to be gay, i could care less.

however, i will give my opinion that there have always been people out there that were gay, or embraced the opposite gender than what they are more than the gender of what they are currently... but i think it is just more acceptable these days. what with all the people in the us standing up for gay and lesbian rights and all.


oh ok, so the article didn't exactly call them gay.
it said they were from japan, and that they were guys who liked to have a good appearance, didn't want to pursue sex and wanted to be in the ljbf zone.
alright, who else thought the first thing i did ? i thought "well, if those japanese would have just let people have their children instead of telling them they could only have one child (whereas they all wanted sons) and now their nation is overpopulated with boys (no doubt some parents were so tickled that they were boys that they didnt care how masculine or feminine they became in their lives) there wouldn't be such a shortage of women (which in turn seems to have actually turned some of these guys into feminine creatures )???

their country only has themselves to blame for making that dumbass rule.
I'm an American Born Chinese who has lived in Shanghai, China for 3 years while attending the international school there.

China has the one child policy though it is easy to circumvent - you can just pony up more cold hard cash to have a second child.

In addition, the abortion of female fetuses occurs only in the poor country-side where they need males in order to do all the hard manual labor. In the cities this phenomenon does not occur.

Anyways, I do agree that the feminization of males is a global phenomenon and a fast increasing one at that.

Though I do not really see why any of us would care - it just means more opportunities for us.
 

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Disgusting!!!! :down:

And the worst part is CNN seems to be gushing about this new 'womenly man'.

Why don't we just remove their penises and put vaginas on them.
 
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