"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Her teasing back

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The girl I'm gaming is one of those w/ strong personalities so is it a good sign if she teases back when I mess around w/ her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's testing you.

The girl I do it with, I'm going to use her as my pivot from now on.

Always have a better answer.

And you can always steal her replies and use them with other girls!

Give us a few examples
 

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Well something like "U're such a bad guy, and bad guy bad luck" or "U think u're so smooth but sorry I'm not interested" with a big smile after that. One time she said she'll kill me to get all of my money, and I said that wouldn't be possible because I already gave it to my other girlfriends and if she wants it she's gonna have to become on of my girls, then she just said then I'm going to have to become 1 of her guys. And she make a lot of comments saying she's not interested in me but in a playful way of course.
 

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Sounds like a man. Are you sure she isn't a sheman?

You're going to have nothing, but trouble out of this one if you care. So, don't give a crap about her or where it goes, and it will be fun. That's what you want, right? Fun?
 

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lol nah, I think she's just b*tching because she's cute and a lot of guys went 4 her. Rite now she has an AFC boyfriend she got while no one else was going for her (she even told one of my friends she was desperate for a boyfriend in that period).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Avn_0903 said:
Well something like "U're such a bad guy, and bad guy bad luck" or "U think u're so smooth but sorry I'm not interested" with a big smile after that. One time she said she'll kill me to get all of my money, and I said that wouldn't be possible because I already gave it to my other girlfriends and if she wants it she's gonna have to become on of my girls, then she just said then I'm going to have to become 1 of her guys. And she make a lot of comments saying she's not interested in me but in a playful way of course.
haha this reminds me of a girl that i'm gaming right now.
I KNOW she likes me, her friends have given me *hints* and she has shown some interest. Ex: teasing me, but she keeps denying it. So I keep teasing her about it and it drives her crazy for me! :D

I'd say its a good thing that they tease you back, I love it when a chick does. Makes it more fun, rather than her just hitting you and saying "your soo mean :)"

I'm like a girl in a way, I like to be teased. Its the girls who actually tease back are the ones that are the most fun! ( in my opinion)
 

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****, all ur comments make me want her more lol. It's so funny because be4, I was going all AFC on 1 of her friends and she even disliked me for that. Anyway, after I failed getting her friend (of course lol) she was the one who comfort me and told me that I shouldn't have gotten so needy and she even quote a saying from her culture that tells u not to be like that lol. By the way the girl I'm talking about is Chinese, being an Asian myself I would say a lot of Asian girls are fun like this, not the socially retarded stereotype that every1 usually think of.
 
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