Her taking control .. sex..

[whatdude]

I was wondering, since I'm fairly new to the whole sex thing.... every time me and my girlfriend fvck... she is usually the one who makes the first move, and usually does everything... like I dont even have to do anything. She takes total control... and I think she may be gettin bored with it.. because I never make the first move when it comes to fvcking her... I just dont wanna seem like I NEED it .. ya know.. ...but more importantly... I just don't know how to start it off... like.. I would enjoy taking control.. but I'm too 'shy' I guess?

Any tips or pointers before she gets too bored with me and finds another d1ck inside of her?

Later pimps

 

[Viktor]

Uh, dude. You have it backwards.

Taking control isn't about being needy. Needy means begging. Taking control is the opposite of begging.

Taking control is about taking what you want. Nothing is more masculine than that.

 

[blinkwatt]

I was wondering, since I'm fairly new to the whole sex thing.... every time me and my girlfriend fvck... she is usually the one who makes the first move, and usually does everything... like I dont even have to do anything. She takes total control... and I think she may be gettin bored with it.. because I never make the first move when it comes to fvcking her... I just dont wanna seem like I NEED it .. ya know.. ...but more importantly... I just don't know how to start it off... like.. I would enjoy taking control.. but I'm too 'shy' I guess?

Any tips or pointers before she gets too bored with me and finds another d1ck inside of her?

Later pimps

Try some new positions without letting her know you are gonna try them. Just says "hey hold up a second" in the middle and move her body into position(it should surprise her). Now when you try these positions establish mascalinity.
Try these with you towering above her
http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/spooning.html
"She Is On Her Side While He Is Behind"
"Ninth Posture Of The Perfumed Garden - and a joke..."
Now just grab her sides and push and pull,spank her if she lets you,DONT LET HER BOSS YOU AROUND.ESTABLISH DOMINANCE.

 

[Damian]

From what I read, you need to actually DO something during sex. No girl likes to hump a frozen corpse. There are other tools that involve less hassle for that. Get involved instead of just laying there. Try some things out. If she's the kind of girl that will staple you to the mattress if you try to get up, hell, that's just what she likes. In any case, move around and get involved.

-Damian

 

[JC9]

You know that feeling you get during sex, where the energy starts building in the area below your stomach? Feel the passion, not climax, wanting to take control?

Let it.