One of the questions to ask is " are you cool with your father".
But you can’t simply ask this question directly, you need to understand it for yourself. Women may say one thing but act differently.
Generally speaking, if a woman is “fearful” or “afraid” of her father, she tends to seek out a dominant, aggressive man. Sometimes, she may even tolerate psychological abuse, such as insults, anger, yelling, or physical violence like spanking or hitting, because that’s what she experienced with her father. These women often become “martyrs,” enduring suffering as a form of sacrifice.
On the other hand, if a woman’s father is calm, relaxed, and steady, she is more likely to want someone like that. This often explains why many assault complaints are filed against men, they don’t fit the kind of partner the woman’s upbringing predisposes her to seek.
Often, women look for men who resemble their fathers, not just in personality but also in physical appearance, mannerisms, style of dress, and even skills such as hunting or being manipulative.
None of this is inherently good or bad; it simply depends on what fits what she is looking for.
You’ll be very skilled if you can figure out what she truly wants just by analyzing her relationship with her father, and understanding whether she’s still seeking that type of person or working to overcome her past trauma to find someone healthier.
