"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Her place or mine?

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This may be a kind of newbie question, but anyway - I'm living in a student accomodation in college and I've just started seeing a girl here; we're together just a few days now. She lives just a few corridors down from me, a quick stroll away. Mostly we end up making out in her apartment, rather than mine. I'm going to have her over to my place, but my question is, does it matter much if it's my place or hers?

I have not had sex with her yet
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dunno, maybe she'd feel more secure at my place - because her friends would not be around, less ASD. Yeah it probably doesn't matter much, just a dumb question really.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Go to where ever she feels more comfortable. If she doesn't care, don't sweat it unless it matters to you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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