"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Her place or mine?

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The_Reaper

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This may be a kind of newbie question, but anyway - I'm living in a student accomodation in college and I've just started seeing a girl here; we're together just a few days now. She lives just a few corridors down from me, a quick stroll away. Mostly we end up making out in her apartment, rather than mine. I'm going to have her over to my place, but my question is, does it matter much if it's my place or hers?

I have not had sex with her yet
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The_Reaper

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I dunno, maybe she'd feel more secure at my place - because her friends would not be around, less ASD. Yeah it probably doesn't matter much, just a dumb question really.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Go to where ever she feels more comfortable. If she doesn't care, don't sweat it unless it matters to you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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