MacAvoy
Banned
I've always had bad luck w/ parents not liking me. Well in my current situation, my g/f has kept our relationship a secret from her parents thus far. I think it is time for her to come forward as we are starting to get more serious.
Initially she said she didn't want the situation to be stressful as a new relationship is enough work as it is. I was fine w/ that, however I think we're at the point where she needs to be open. She was tellin me that her mom tried setting her up w/ a dentist that she works for, she was like I think I should tell my mom about us soon.
She is 24, lives at home, graduated w/ her BA in Science, was first on the list for med school, and is taking X ray tech this year as a back up, hopefully she'll get in next year.
Her mom is overprotective as it is. She is an only child and "the princess". Her dad teases her and is frustrated by her princess attributes (shes very high maintenance, takes 2 hours to get ready every morning for school). One of the issues is that I have a child but she says her mom will get over it as she just wants her to be happy.
My question is, how do I go about getting her to bring our relationship into the open w/ her parents. How can I bring the subject up w/out being AFC. Ideas, I don't want to come across as needy, but I don't want to allow her to hide.
Initially she said she didn't want the situation to be stressful as a new relationship is enough work as it is. I was fine w/ that, however I think we're at the point where she needs to be open. She was tellin me that her mom tried setting her up w/ a dentist that she works for, she was like I think I should tell my mom about us soon.
She is 24, lives at home, graduated w/ her BA in Science, was first on the list for med school, and is taking X ray tech this year as a back up, hopefully she'll get in next year.
Her mom is overprotective as it is. She is an only child and "the princess". Her dad teases her and is frustrated by her princess attributes (shes very high maintenance, takes 2 hours to get ready every morning for school). One of the issues is that I have a child but she says her mom will get over it as she just wants her to be happy.
My question is, how do I go about getting her to bring our relationship into the open w/ her parents. How can I bring the subject up w/out being AFC. Ideas, I don't want to come across as needy, but I don't want to allow her to hide.
