"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Her interest level went suddenly up

Arnzy

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This girl had really low interest. Rejected my offers and told me that she doesn't feel anything for me. Two days later she texted me and tried to use me as emotional support. I told her that she can't say "no" to me and then use me as emotional support.

Anyways, later I told her all that's negative about her and other bad things. It was all true and she later agreed that everything was true.
Suddenly after that she deleted all her social media accounts and later turned out that she cried 4 days because of that. And now, a week later she has so high interest in me. We had really hot sex, she did everything I wanted. Now she says how she misses me.

So, I'm a little bit confused now. She said how hurtful it was for her, but how is it possible that her interest level went up like that?
We are both 18.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sazc

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She's damaged goods, that's why her interest level went up. Any chick worth her salt wouldnt let a man speak to her like that, she would move on without issue.

Now, let me say this - any man worth his salt would move on when a chick isnt interested. Keep her as an orbiter and find a chick that reciprocates out of the gate.
 

Konada

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Hard to tell without any other information. 18 yos are fickle as hell so that might be one case. Find out about her relationship with her father/past boyfriends. Any hint of abusiveness in any of those relationships and you should seriously keep her as a fvckbuddy.
 

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it's the logical conclusion of the idea that being as indifferent as possible gets girls.

although if she takes it to that extent i think she's either a masochist or she really hates her father.
 

El Payaso

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Because women are attracted to a man that puts them in their place which is what you did.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Her father left their family before she was born and her last boyfriend also treated her very badly. I can control my interest level at the moment, so keeping her as fwb isn't hard.
 

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Its not as complex as you think.

Women know that most men lie to them and tell them overly positive bullsh!t because they want to f*ck them. She sees you as honest and someone she can trust to keep it real.

Most men don't keep it real because they're afraid of rejection
. This is why I've always promoted the policy of calling women out on their bullsh!t when it happens. Most men don't get this, but amazing things happen when you don't live in fear.
 

SgtSplacker

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Its not as complex as you think.

Women know that most men lie to them and tell them overly positive bullsh!t because they want to f*ck them. She sees you as honest and someone she can trust to keep it real.

Most men don't keep it real because they're afraid of rejection
. This is why I've always promoted the policy of calling women out on their bullsh!t when it happens. Most men don't get this, but amazing things happen when you don't live in fear.
It's critical to call women out when they are wrong. Otherwise their puussy gets to their head and they get entitled.
 

om1xr

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lol you've got troubles ahead of you buddy. what you have in your hands is a damaged goods who believes that she is not good enough and have a victim mentality and if you treat her good or try to save her she won't believe you and will create all sort of inane drama to make you treat her like sh!t and abuse her.
if that's your thing good...if not then you shouldn't get involved with such women if you respect yourself and your intelligence.
 
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