"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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her girlfriend's interference

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how do you handle this situation. you are texing or communicating in some way electronically other than actually talking over the phone. everything is going smoothly you brought your A game but then her friend who is not emotionally tied in like she is starts talking and replying for her and kills everything that you threw at her that would have normally worked. Now i have seen two of my homegirls struggle to flirt with one guy he had both of them baffled as to what to say next now i want to achieve this. it affects me because when her friend replies for her it's the coldest responses shes laughing at what would have normally had my target in total awe. i'll appreciate any advice
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jophil28

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1. Stop texting or emailing immediately - go to radio silence.

2. Wait until the object of your desire sends you a text because she is curious about your silence..

3. Wait at least 24 hours to reply.

4. Tell her that you cannot flirt with her anymore because your best buddy has gotten all pissy and jealous.

5. Wait until the penny drops with her and she starts chasing you . IF she does not get what you are saying she is too dumb to date.
 
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