"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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her girlfriend's interference

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how do you handle this situation. you are texing or communicating in some way electronically other than actually talking over the phone. everything is going smoothly you brought your A game but then her friend who is not emotionally tied in like she is starts talking and replying for her and kills everything that you threw at her that would have normally worked. Now i have seen two of my homegirls struggle to flirt with one guy he had both of them baffled as to what to say next now i want to achieve this. it affects me because when her friend replies for her it's the coldest responses shes laughing at what would have normally had my target in total awe. i'll appreciate any advice
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1. Stop texting or emailing immediately - go to radio silence.

2. Wait until the object of your desire sends you a text because she is curious about your silence..

3. Wait at least 24 hours to reply.

4. Tell her that you cannot flirt with her anymore because your best buddy has gotten all pissy and jealous.

5. Wait until the penny drops with her and she starts chasing you . IF she does not get what you are saying she is too dumb to date.
 
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