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Zurphy

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so ive been dating this girl for about a month now, weve done some stuff but still no sex. were gettin somewhat serious but not yet to the exclusiveb/f-g/f thing. anyways, lately ive been talkin to one of her best friends online and she tells me that she (the friend) has had a huge crush on me for like a year. she told me that all she wants to do is fvck me, no dating crap, just sex. (it would be her first time...). i told her maybe cuz im dating one of her best friends.

if u guys were in this situation, what would u do about it?
 

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theonedude

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id prolly **** her but its gonna cause a hellstorm of ****.


she mite be ****in wit u since its her best friend or whatever, seein if youd do it.

its up 2 you like i said id prolly do it, but thats jsut cuz im a dumbass.
 

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to me i just sounds like she might be testing you for her friend. but i dont know the whole story. try to find a way to test her to see if shes testing you.

but if you really like the girl youve been dating, i wouldnt do it
 

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Perhaps try a positive c/f answer. Because, techinically, it's true and you're saying "yes, i'll have sex w/ you" but the c/f throws it off so she can't say "your sorta boyfriend is unfaithful!" Or, she could take it literally and **** you. Who knows? You gotta do something! :D
 
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