"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Her Ex is stalkin me hardcore

Moofahsa

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I'm seeing a girl, nothing exclusive...but her ex is stalking me and hanging out at the end of the block...threatening me and what not.

Hes a speed freak, 2 stints in the pen...kinda worried bout it.

I'm a concealed carrier and have a .45 in the car...just curious if I should get the cops involved or wait till he actually does something...

He is nuts, jumped on her car the other day while she was driving...

yah
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lmao, what a chump. My advice is to definitely call the cops instead of trying to take the law into your own hands. Because you will be sitting in jail right next to him if you do.
 

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You got to ask yourself this question: Is this b1tch even worth it? if you were dating other women as well the natural logic would dictate your thinking: why am i sticking my neck out for her when i have 2 other ones with no crazy ex-boyfriends lurking around.

Moofahsa said:
I'm a concealed carrier and have a .45 in the car...just curious if I should get the cops involved or wait till he actually does something...

He is nuts, jumped on her car the other day while she was driving...
Other get the cops involved or stop seeing this chick. This is her problem and it shouldn't be your problem. Self defence with a gun is a messy and tricky process and many young men have gone to jail cause they either pulled a gun to threaten or actually shot someone and being young (r u black?) is going to be held against you. The onus falls on you to prove, you had no other choice but to pull a gun.
 

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It is the simple principal of the thing. I shouldn't have to stop getting mine just because some strung out junkie is jealous.

I'm in Texas so...

I don't know really, I don't wanna be a big ***** and call the cops because all his junkie friends would follow me...and I don't wanna go pulling out guns because that will just give him an excuse...

Honestly I am thinking about turning him in for cooking again, she knows where his lab is at so just an annonymous tip and problem solved with a 3 strike offender.
 

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Tweakers are totally nuts. I'd have her(or even YOU) file a restraining order against him, if he has already made verbal threats. Cops take that seriously.There is absolutely no need to empty your clip into this dirtbag.....over a girl??? Why deal with her old baggage? You're a DJ- find a newer one with a cleaner slate, man.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You want a legal paper trail and you want to start it yesterday.
 

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Moofahsa said:
Honestly I am thinking about turning him in for cooking again, she knows where his lab is at so just an annonymous tip and problem solved with a 3 strike offender.
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You know- if that's the case.....lock him up for good, and clear our streets of this toothless wonder......problem solved.....without even firing a single shot! That's the path of least resistence, cost, and effort.
 

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seems like a dangerous situation, so mess around with a junkie, you'll never know what they're going to do, i dont think its worth the trouble unless you really love this girl.
 

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Moofahsa said:
It is the simple principal of the thing. I shouldn't have to stop getting mine just because some strung out junkie is jealous.
She ain't yours remember?! you are seeing her not exclusive, which means she can see other guys and can also dump your ass next week. Once again you are operating of scarcity mentality - if you were spining other plates, you wouldn't want to have to deal with this bullsh1t to begin with. Every girl has some baggage and it is up to you to decide if this baggage is big enough to handle that won't fvck you up. In this case her baggage is 180lbs ex-boyfriend/ex con junkie who is bend on fvcking you up with a baseball bat.

Now I ask you again, is she worth it to carry her baggage??
 
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You want to snitch on him? You realize what happens to snitches right?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I bet shes on it too, why would she know about it and not get away from it already?
 
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True, how does she know where the meth lab is? All I can think to say is RUN.
 

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HAHA, she dated a guy who not only is a drug addict, BUT HAS HIS OWN LAB??? I guarantee she's done those drugs too. Think about it. If she were a quality girl who had her head in the right place and ambitions in life, would she even give this guy the time of day? Right, she wouldn't.

There are 3 billion women in the world. Go find another one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You're being set-up dude.......I'd immediately bounce, on this one. If you are concerned about "getting yours" so much, then stick around to see where you'll wind up! Any woman even minutely associated with Meth.......has major SKELETONS in their closet. Don't be fooled by her slim looks- it's prolly all drug induced. She is really a fat, toothless, sea hag.......on "artificial hotness"......Remember- I used to hang with that sick crowd. They are nothing but schemers, frauds, and schizos.
 
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Be afraid. Be very afraid. I had a tweaker dude chase me down in traffic at 2AM and try to ram my vehicle and beat my ass for no apparent reason (well, he's my friend's neighbor, so he knows my vehicle, but I've never had any words with him) a few months back. These people are fvcking psychopaths.

Just make sure you stay sober when you're around this kind of situation though, if you've had anything to drink and you shoot somebody in self defense it will look very bad in court.
 

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Not worth it. The man in all of us wants to stand up to anyone that threatens us, but in this case I'd say cut her loose.
You already said you're not exclusive, and you started your post with "Eh", so how into this girl could you really be?
Personally I wouldn't want to mix it up with a chick that was involved with a tweaker anyway, so yeah buh-bye.
 

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Is the stalkers name Anakin per chance?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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