I once messed around with a woman that admitted she had “daddy issues”. She credited these issues with her attraction to very rough and degrading intimate encounters. She basically had no limits, except that I couldn’t leave marks, (not because she didn’t want them), but she didn’t want her boyfriend to see. As the saying goes, she is not yours, it’s just your turn. Anyway, she was an absolute blast in the sack…and then she left, as she went onto the next dude.
Conversely, my wife of 12 years grew up in a very traditional religious home, her dad is conventionally masculine (he was a laborer his entire life), and he is still married to her mother. My wife claims that her body count is 1 (me). Even if she is lying, her body count is low for sure. However, sex with my wife is slightly more fun than doing taxes.
Have you all observed a similar phenomenon?
I am sure some here will say my wife’s lack luster interest in sex is more about her being not attracted to me and less about her lack of “damage”. This is possible, especially early in the relationship, as I hadn’t read The Rational Male until a few years ago, and early on I made all sorts of blue pill errors. However, particularly in the last few years, my behavior has changed, I have maintained a very healthy body, I have advanced in my career, improved in hobbies, and all together I now behave in a way that is significantly more masculine than I used to, thanks to a red-pill awakening. Conversely, my wife has steadily gained weight, and her lack of interest in sex is unwavering. However, now, my interest in sex with her has decreased significantly, as she is now fat and boring instead of just boring.
Do any of the guys here think there is some relationship between damage and fun?
Or between a religious upbringing and a lack of fun?
I appreciate all comments here, but I am less interested in fixing my situation, as I doubt it can be fixed, and I am more interested in the collective observations on whether there is a relationship between damage and fun vs. stability and boredom.
T
Conversely, my wife of 12 years grew up in a very traditional religious home, her dad is conventionally masculine (he was a laborer his entire life), and he is still married to her mother. My wife claims that her body count is 1 (me). Even if she is lying, her body count is low for sure. However, sex with my wife is slightly more fun than doing taxes.
Have you all observed a similar phenomenon?
I am sure some here will say my wife’s lack luster interest in sex is more about her being not attracted to me and less about her lack of “damage”. This is possible, especially early in the relationship, as I hadn’t read The Rational Male until a few years ago, and early on I made all sorts of blue pill errors. However, particularly in the last few years, my behavior has changed, I have maintained a very healthy body, I have advanced in my career, improved in hobbies, and all together I now behave in a way that is significantly more masculine than I used to, thanks to a red-pill awakening. Conversely, my wife has steadily gained weight, and her lack of interest in sex is unwavering. However, now, my interest in sex with her has decreased significantly, as she is now fat and boring instead of just boring.
Do any of the guys here think there is some relationship between damage and fun?
Or between a religious upbringing and a lack of fun?
I appreciate all comments here, but I am less interested in fixing my situation, as I doubt it can be fixed, and I am more interested in the collective observations on whether there is a relationship between damage and fun vs. stability and boredom.
T
