I met this girl at a party, lost her number, then met her friends who gave her my number. She has my number but says she has being busy (i think this is bull****). I was talking to her and she seems interested but i think i acted too soft. Because i took a different route home to talk to her. then i said bye and told her to call me. What do ya think? Some people say girls never call, but i think that's bull ****. I appear soft right now asking a stupit question but i don't give a ****. When should i spect a call before i can officially assume she isn't interested.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Her calling u
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
well the advise here to guys is wait three days before you call, so give your self about the same amount of time before you write her off.
**pssstt: girls know about the 3 day rule***
**pssstt: girls know about the 3 day rule***
TillTheEndOfTime
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You do!?! It's over fellas. Pack your bags.
just because they know about it doesnt neccesarily make it less affective in my opinion, well hell, maybe we should start waiting a month before calling, that way they don't expect it at all. They won't even remember you lol.
Just reread your post, dont expect a call at all bro, you dont have her number so don't worry about it. That's their job to worry. Go get some more numbers and get some girls wondering if you will call or not, it will make you feel better
Just reread your post, dont expect a call at all bro, you dont have her number so don't worry about it. That's their job to worry. Go get some more numbers and get some girls wondering if you will call or not, it will make you feel better
I saw her today at the bus while I was with like 8 friends. We barely talked and I didn't get any interesting signs. I made her laugh a couple times but that's it. She did ask how I meet her friend and such. I tried to pay more attention to her friend to try to get her competing but I now think she thinks I like her friend. The times that I talked to her I talk to her in front of her people. Should I start isolating her and try to squeeze the manly voice and try to get something done, or be ****y and treat her like a girl I see every now and then? Should I stop seeing her for a couple of days? (i won't c her next week, so should i c her now so she knows what she'll miss?)
BTW. She's indecisive, how can I exploit that?
BTW. She's indecisive, how can I exploit that?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
girls will call all the time if you present yourself in the right way. Actually people in general will call you all the time...when you don't want them too. The best way to get a girl to call you is either to A. Promise them a date and not call or B. Have sex with them and not call. Your phone will be ringing off the hook, but if you're smart and you see one of these girls calling you, you won't pick up.(or a number you don't recognize, never pick up for a number you don't recognize, if they don't leave a message then it wasn't that important anyway)
Anyway, this girl may or may not call you (what am I psychic I don't know), but off hand I would say she won't. If she's indecisive as you've said, then big issues like phone calls probably don't make it past a thought. Sounds like a case where you may just want to expect very little out of the whole situation and look else where. Not saying you should forget about her altogether, far from it you should keep her in mind but this is a priority 3 or 4 encounter where you invest alot but your ROI may not be too great.
Anyway, this girl may or may not call you (what am I psychic I don't know), but off hand I would say she won't. If she's indecisive as you've said, then big issues like phone calls probably don't make it past a thought. Sounds like a case where you may just want to expect very little out of the whole situation and look else where. Not saying you should forget about her altogether, far from it you should keep her in mind but this is a priority 3 or 4 encounter where you invest alot but your ROI may not be too great.
DJHoolahoop
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btw i think rules and games like this is just SO STUPID... but i guess that's why i still need to get my act together, dating shouldn't be a playoff of steps and right moves... but i say again, that's why i'm still working my life out lol