Her brother's guy friends....

[Reno89]

I met this girl that cooks for me, cleans for me, and is great in the bedroom. She is 25 and is decent looking. The problem is that I am 23, and not looking for a relationship. I told her this, and she decided to keep messing with me.

She gets mad when I go out on dates, but she plans them out too. It just so happens that these guys end up being lame or thirsty.

She recently moved in with her brother. He is cool, but he hangs out with a lot of dudes, who also hang with her. The other day I was at her new apartment. She was with those guys joking around while I was just chillin. I get kinda jealous when she is laughing with them and I am off somewhere else just kickin it with some of the guys.

Am I overreacting? I need your opinions on this situation.

 

[Plutoman]

not looking for a relationship.

I get kinda jealous

These two lines are not connecting here. If you're not looking for anything with her, then the only reason to care is if you are doing it raw. So yes, I'd say you are overreacting.

/notanexpert. Gotta be honest about my experience level.

 

[Reno89]

I feel like I am not ready for a relationship, but I get jealous very easily.

 

[Scars]

I feel like I am not ready for a relationship, but I get jealous very easily.

Hate to break it to you, but if you're not willing to tie yourself down, then neither will she. If you want to bang other chicks, then she can bang other dudes. That's how it works.

Perhaps you're better off coming to a mutual agreement that you wont bring people around and do stuff in front of one another, and RESPECT the agreement. Then it becomes less of a matter of jealousy and more about respect.

Also, I don't think you should worry too much, depending on how the brother is. I don't have a sister, but if I did I'd tell all my a$shole friends that she's off limits from the get-go and beat their a$s if they tried anything. But that's just me.

-Scars