Her blocking ugly friend

[anonymous12345]

I got “good” appearance and SMV, so this can be a trigger for her in this: my major problem with sets is her ugly/fat friend. It is extremely strong, they start angrily yelling, interrupt the conversation even though the girl I talk to is completely fine, smiling, thinking. Of course the girl doesn’t do anything to reject/moderate/stop her friend, due to she's feminine. I don't think one can over-dominate the ugly, she knows no limits, and we all know of the risks we men face here.

It probably has an evolutionary explanation, the ugly tries to win in the competition.

I’ve once passived the ugly/fat by validating her, but my guts says it won’t work generally. It won't be enough.

Is there anyone who have a good solution for this?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I would think just being cool under fire is the key. Just smile and wave, smile and wave. Look at your target with a look like “where the **** did that thing come from?”. Your target is also gauging your reaction to her mother hen.

Play it cool, interact minimally and if you do open your mouth make sure your words are congruent with your frame.

Show her she can’t fluster you. Eventually she will stop. Also this is where having a wingman works, a “lesbian” friend I used to hang with winged for me several times, chicks like her knew how to deal with mother hens.

 

[anonymous12345]

Yeah, here are some suggestions:

• "So she's your mom, or? *smirk*"
• "She's really loud, eh? ;-)"
• <a slight wtf/surprise look in a humorous way>
• "Oh I get it, you're looking after your friend. Don't worry, I'll take good care of her." (won't work I think)

If your lesbian friend got some special tricks, sure let us know.

 

[sevbucmash]

You gotta disarm the **** block first.

 

[bat soup]

Ask her if it's her time of the month.