"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Her BF confronted me!

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BES

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there is this girl i work with....i was not attractive at first but she keeps flirting with me ...so i ask her if she is single. she said she had a BF blah blah .....she keeps flirting with me.but i stop flirting with her...........after a month his boyfriend came after me ......telling me that she had a ring and she is off limits...(ill say a little bit overprotective.)

What should i do??talk to the girl? i feel bad to the girl his BF is overprotective and controlling.....

i didnt even ask the girl out for a movie or something no cheating or stuff.........
i swear i could have punch the motFker in the face but i was at work so i have to keep it cool.
He cant do that to me disrespecting me eyeballing me and confronting me at my work.......................so i eyeball him back i didnt gave up...i told him i dont know what are you talking about and he left..... arrgg i swear if this **** happens outside i could have beat the sh{T out of him.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What you're doing right now is right. Keep on ignoring her, but don't mind her boyfriend too much. If they have problems with their relationship, they can resolve it themselves. The guy doesn't need an asswhuppin
 
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yeah, don't resort to violence. He shows up again, call the police or if you have security at work call them. He has no right to be showing up at work confronting you like that. Let the proffesionals handle it. That way he can't press charges for assault and you don't get viewed as a violent neanderthal by the women.
 
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what a wierd guy.

thats weak...why get so jealous..its flirting and she does it with you.
 
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good one

Man, I would have taken ten minutes to stop laughing in this geeks face. You have no problems dude, this guy, hell, she has said "something" to him. She may harbor feelings for you, so, give her one for the road?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thanks for the advice.....
i probably talk to her ...she might be using me to get out of her realtionship...i really need to talk to her ....everytime i do something i always think about that incident i need to let it out......

yeah thanks ...its not worth it fighting him...but that was kind of immatured of him disrespecting me and i feel like in high school again ...tsk tsk.....
 
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Originally posted by BES
telling me that she had a ring and she is off limits...(ill say a little bit overprotective.)
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I would have said:
"Well then get her to stop flirting with me, and quit your *****ing"

*shrugs*
 
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Seriously, maybe I missed this in the replies, but how does he go to you and confront you on this? she obviously told him something about you, so you need to know ?wtf? is wrong with her. I suppose he probably heard about you, may she screamed your name while giving him head (lol) so he got jealous and wanted to know what the deal was. Insecure and over-protective are the keywords.
 
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Her bf is an insecure AFC i wouldnt be suprised if she left him in a short while.
 
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