"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Her attempt at revenge backfired!

Bigdavis

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So there is this chick I've been casually seeing but she doesn't want a relationship because she just got out of one. She told me to date other people and she said she probably would too for a while. Cool with me.

Saturday night she showed up to my birthday party at this bar downtown. She saw me kissing 3 different girls during the course of the night and I pretty much just ignored her all night. She was mad but must not have been too made because she begged me to come over the next night and I was busy. Then made plans with me on monday night on monday night she whined a few times about me kissing those girls...

a few nights later I guess she decided she was going to try and turn the tables on me and started flirting with this dude in front of me, then sat on his lap and kissed him. I totally turned the tables on her though, instead of getting mad I made friends with the dude while she was gone with her friends (I'm guessing to the bathroom). Baught him a beer and told him he could have her but she's kind of nutty. When she came back we were buddies, in fact we're going to go out this weekend and pick up chicks together.

I totally didn't let it bother me at all that she was kissing the dude in front of me and it drove her fricking CRAZY!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice job that will make her think a little lol probably she'll want you even more now
 

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Nice play. I did something similar once. The strange thing I found is that once I befriended the other guy, any feelings of jealousy I had were gone. Then I realized, as long as I like the other guy as a friend, I dont really care if one of my x's or FB's is fvcking him.

I will add this to the Twaht Kunt Do thread.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bigdavis

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She is a pretty lame ***** but she's hot as hell and I enjoy ****ing her.

She called me later that night to ask if I was mad at her, I just laughed at her and said "did it seem like i was mad"

The next morning and again the next night she called pretending like she didn't remember anything that happened because she was drunk... She was like "I didn't do anything stupid did I" hoping I would mention her kissing that guy and I was just like "nope" LOL I got this ***** right where I want her!
 
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