helping out ur mate

[Deadly_Assassin]

Alright I have a guy mate who likes my other chick mate. The chick and I are just friends, shes kinda attractive but I dont like her or dont want a relationship or anything of that sort with her, how can I help my mate out, like how do I put in a good word for him without going hes a nice guy ?

another question say u like a chick and her best mate or close mate (another girl not attractive )whos mates with you as well has a problem with you two going out will she talk crap about you to the chick? And if another guy likes her but he doesnt really have a chance will she talk about them how they should get to know each other to you and how they would make a good match?

 

[Caveman]

Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
Alright I have a guy mate who likes my other chick mate. The chick and I are just friends, shes kinda attractive but I dont like her or dont want a relationship or anything of that sort with her, how can I help my mate out, like how do I put in a good word for him without going hes a nice guy ?

Comment on how these girls are all over your friend. Ask her what she thinks makes him so attractive to all these girls. She will look for his best qualities. If that doesn't make her want him, nothing will.

Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
another question say u like a chick and her best mate or close mate (another girl not attractive )whos mates with you as well has a problem with you two going out will she talk crap about you to the chick?

Why does she have a problem with you two going out? If you don't know, try and find out because it is important. Out of jealousy, girls will talk crap about you.

Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
And if another guy likes her but he doesnt really have a chance will she talk about them how they should get to know each other to you and how they would make a good match?

This other guy likes the same girl you do? And her friend doesn't have a problem with them going out? It is possible her friend can influence her in the decision she makes, but if there is just no attraction, chances are slim.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

Why does she have a problem with you two going out? If you don't know, try and find out because it is important. Out of jealousy, girls will talk crap about you.

I dunno I thought that this girl might have some feelings for me cos at first she was always keen on hanging around with me, ringing me up, getting along with my family. Then when I told her that hey I just look at u as my sis and people are talking crap about us i dont want them to get the wrong impression. Shes kinda gets the message I think and after that she hasnt called me fora while and isnt so keen to hang around.

Also this chick is really overprotective of her mates. Shes kinda ugly and a tomboy, nothing femine about her. I mean she has two close girl mates. One I like, the other my other good mate likes. Shes not letting my mate go out with her other good mate dunno why though? And the other good mate likes my mate.

I am guessing she must have talked crap about me too to the chick I like.

 

[Lost In Translation]

Quote - Caveman
Comment on how these girls are all over your friend. Ask her what she thinks makes him so attractive to all these girls. She will look for his best qualities. If that doesn't make her want him, nothing will.


excellent advice, listen to Caveman


social proofing is key but at the end of the day he has to have some game too


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