Helping out a friend in bad need

[Jvesti]

I have a friend that is totally obsessed with this one girl. He went out with her for a year, 2 years ago. When they were going out he was basically whipped. He went to church because she did, she tried to make him stop smoking weed and drinking.(said at the start of meeting him she didn't want to be with a guy who smoked weed) That didn't last because that's who he is. Eventually tensions builded and they broke up. On a side note she didn't even give him oral sex nor barely any sex for months after the relationship. I think she cheated on him a few times.

He broke up w/ her and he started gettin laid regularly. He's good with chicks generally when he meets them, he SUCKS in relationships.

Recently, for some reason (don't really have a clue why) he's ignored other girls and becomed obsessive about his Ex. He calls her multiple times per day. When I hear him on the phone with her his voice tone, his words everything about him changes into a non-threatening *****.

This saturday he calls me at 3am saying **** like, "I need to call her" "I love her" "I wanna get married and have kids". I yelled at his ass not to call and he finally listened.

My question is, because I'm not like this, Why would someone be like this? Secondly, Any suggestions to help me get his head out of his ass?

 

[Tkman]

Obsession is going to cause him to become depressed/alcoholic/ and much more !!! Take him clubbing, etc maybe he will find someone else and forget about the other one.

 

[Jvesti]

He goes out all the time. He just gave up approaching or persuing anything with other girls.

He also has alcoholic tendencies

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Originally posted by Jvesti


My question is, because I'm not like this, Why would someone be like this? Secondly, Any suggestions to help me get his head out of his ass?

Well I can say that some people get like this because they feel they have found the one. All girls are the same inside, but its the brain, the spot in your heart where you place a person. So when a person comes into a persons life, and it truly affects them, they want to have it more. Sometimes people take it to extremes and become stalkers....some just get a crush. I won't explain to expand on that lust but sooner or later people figure it out. And secondly, you are from Mass, give him a 'boston bump' and peg him in the head. Tell him to get some fresh split tail and move on!

M.A.C.

 

[b's nuts]

i believe a good rule for this that I heard the other day is, go out and try and fvck 10 different chicks, he will forget about her before he gets to 10.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Don't do drugs or smoke, okay?