"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Helping her circumvent her conscience

Die Hard

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Some girls are in multi-year relationships and they show obvious signs that they're bored with their boyfriends and would like to get fvcked by the bad boy (me) sometime.

But this requires a different approach compared to picking up single girls. Most importantly, you need to help them circumvent their conscience...

Like when you would invite her over for dinner at your place, she's probably gonna reject your invitation because it is much too obvious that you're gonna fvck and her conscience will kick in the moment she agrees to your invitation.
However, if you ask her to come over because you need help decorating your living room, her conscience won't kick in. Deep down, she knows very well that you are inviting her to come over so you can bang her brains out, but she will conveniently forget about that if you provide her with an excuse...

I'm sure some of you have become pretty good at gaming in this type of situation. So let's hear all your tips and tricks on how to maximize succes in picking up these girls!


P.S. I don't wanna hear any crap about how it's immoral to chase after girls who are already taken, or how I could end up hurt by angry boyfriends etc. Whine this, whine that, boo here, boo there... Don't waste your time, I'm not gonna listen.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have had good luck offering free (real, and difficult and long term) karate lessons. :) Married or not, it often works just great.
 

Aristippus

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Die Hard,
Although I personally don't recommend fooling around with women who are in relationships, if you're going to do it, just be honest. No sneaky sh*t. Own up to it and either she's ok with it or she isn't.

"I'm not looking for a relationship. I only want women for one thing. That's it.". You say that during conversation and she will either be ok with that or not. Just direct. Nothing weak, sneaky or manipulative. Either she wants to or she doesn't.

Be prepared in the long term to reap what you sow.
 

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Aristippus said:
Die Hard,
Although I personally don't recommend fooling around with women who are in relationships, if you're going to do it, just be honest. No sneaky sh*t. Own up to it and either she's ok with it or she isn't.

"I'm not looking for a relationship. I only want women for one thing. That's it.". You say that during conversation and she will either be ok with that or not. Just direct. Nothing weak, sneaky or manipulative. Either she wants to or she doesn't.

Be prepared in the long term to reap what you sow.
I guess someone forgot to read my P.S. :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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