"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Helping her circumvent her conscience

Die Hard

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Some girls are in multi-year relationships and they show obvious signs that they're bored with their boyfriends and would like to get fvcked by the bad boy (me) sometime.

But this requires a different approach compared to picking up single girls. Most importantly, you need to help them circumvent their conscience...

Like when you would invite her over for dinner at your place, she's probably gonna reject your invitation because it is much too obvious that you're gonna fvck and her conscience will kick in the moment she agrees to your invitation.
However, if you ask her to come over because you need help decorating your living room, her conscience won't kick in. Deep down, she knows very well that you are inviting her to come over so you can bang her brains out, but she will conveniently forget about that if you provide her with an excuse...

I'm sure some of you have become pretty good at gaming in this type of situation. So let's hear all your tips and tricks on how to maximize succes in picking up these girls!


P.S. I don't wanna hear any crap about how it's immoral to chase after girls who are already taken, or how I could end up hurt by angry boyfriends etc. Whine this, whine that, boo here, boo there... Don't waste your time, I'm not gonna listen.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have had good luck offering free (real, and difficult and long term) karate lessons. :) Married or not, it often works just great.
 

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Die Hard,
Although I personally don't recommend fooling around with women who are in relationships, if you're going to do it, just be honest. No sneaky sh*t. Own up to it and either she's ok with it or she isn't.

"I'm not looking for a relationship. I only want women for one thing. That's it.". You say that during conversation and she will either be ok with that or not. Just direct. Nothing weak, sneaky or manipulative. Either she wants to or she doesn't.

Be prepared in the long term to reap what you sow.
 

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Aristippus said:
Die Hard,
Although I personally don't recommend fooling around with women who are in relationships, if you're going to do it, just be honest. No sneaky sh*t. Own up to it and either she's ok with it or she isn't.

"I'm not looking for a relationship. I only want women for one thing. That's it.". You say that during conversation and she will either be ok with that or not. Just direct. Nothing weak, sneaky or manipulative. Either she wants to or she doesn't.

Be prepared in the long term to reap what you sow.
I guess someone forgot to read my P.S. :rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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