Helping AFC Friends..

[Driven2Succeed]

Ok.. i have a buddy who is totally AFC.. like to the fullest man.. he recently had his heart broken by a girl hes been with for 2 WEEKS.. lol.. i really feel for him but damn he is AFC in every sense. his game definitely isn't strong and he doesn't really know how to play the game. i always try to boost his confidence and help him out and teach him what i know, but it seems to go in one ear and out the other.

maybe if i was there i could help him more... we're from NY but ive been in Hawaii for 3 years doin the Army thing.. hes like 23 but has no clue, doesnt work or have any hobbies besides sitting online and trying to meet girls. its really sad guys, like seriously. i try to convince him to go to college or join the military and take a risk with his life.. but hes like "no, i have too much to lose".. and im just like whatever.. military has been good to me so far.. 05 STi paid off, no debt, steady $$$, living like a king, hawaii has been cool, getting ready to go to 82nd airborne div in nov.. i dunno its just been good to me and it frustrates me that he is in neutral and doesn't seem to care.

i dont think he realizes that he is actually pushing the girls away by not having a life. like he only chaces grade A pvssy.. but it doesn't work well for him. like when i talk to him i'm just like "i really feel bad for this dude".. hes pretty sad to be honest.

how can i help him? send him this way?

 

[SexinEar]

Idk if anyone else noticed this, but when you try to help people out, they never appreciate it. Same thing here. If he was driven to improve, he'd do it himself like you did. Helping people out in this sense is always a lost cause, dont bother.

 

[Driven2Succeed]

thanks for replying..

yea i think ur right man.. like all the advice in the world wont truly help him until he is really ready for a change..

just frustrating to see guys floundering, knowing they can make a change and do so much better.. its really not that hard, but i guess he has to want to make the change from within..

owen

 

[mexican_player2]

yeah man i have the same problem with a friend, he is the biggest chump and i talked to him about this site and how the way he thinks about treating women is wrong (being submissive, call her everyday, do what ever she says etc) and he says im crazy and ****

whenever you try to help somebody they just dont give a ****
so dont help them unless they ask for help

 

[Rex Man]

EX****ingACTLY!!!
Which is why I ranted in a previous post. Even though he's your guy, he must live his on life, even if it's one of a loser(sorry). I agree with the mex man, unless afcs ask for help, let them marinate in their own ignorance.