"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Helpful Dads Can Hurt Mom's Self-Esteem

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From the article:

Dads are helping out with childrearing more and more these days. The result can be both a boon and a letdown for super-moms, whose self-competence can take a hit when paired with husbands who are savvy caregivers, new research finds.
If you think this study, or this article is actually about parenting you would be wrong. It may be easy to think that it is, since the whole thing talks about parenting.

This study / article is just part of the larger cultural misandry, and is meant to confirm the vision of the anointed.

More importantly, this study / article is about giving ammunition to average women. This way if a man is not involved enough with his children she can call him a deadbeat, but if he is too involved with his children then he is hurting her self esteem. Since there is no real objective way to measure too much / too little, this boxes men into a place where no matter what they do they are wrong.

Which is exactly how the feminists want it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If I was a shrink, I'd say "Does this compell you to quit being a selfish cvnt and become a better mother?"
 

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damned if you do, damned if you don't. Might as well do what thou whilst.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Luthor Rex said:
Since there is no real objective way to measure too much / too little, this boxes men into a place where no matter what they do they are wrong.

Which is exactly how the feminists want it.
Which is why men are giving women the marriage strike, and in the future a baby strike once male birth control hits the West.
 
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