"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Helpful Dads Can Hurt Mom's Self-Esteem

Luthor Rex

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From the article:

Dads are helping out with childrearing more and more these days. The result can be both a boon and a letdown for super-moms, whose self-competence can take a hit when paired with husbands who are savvy caregivers, new research finds.
If you think this study, or this article is actually about parenting you would be wrong. It may be easy to think that it is, since the whole thing talks about parenting.

This study / article is just part of the larger cultural misandry, and is meant to confirm the vision of the anointed.

More importantly, this study / article is about giving ammunition to average women. This way if a man is not involved enough with his children she can call him a deadbeat, but if he is too involved with his children then he is hurting her self esteem. Since there is no real objective way to measure too much / too little, this boxes men into a place where no matter what they do they are wrong.

Which is exactly how the feminists want it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If I was a shrink, I'd say "Does this compell you to quit being a selfish cvnt and become a better mother?"
 

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damned if you do, damned if you don't. Might as well do what thou whilst.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Luthor Rex said:
Since there is no real objective way to measure too much / too little, this boxes men into a place where no matter what they do they are wrong.

Which is exactly how the feminists want it.
Which is why men are giving women the marriage strike, and in the future a baby strike once male birth control hits the West.
 
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